KnightofPhoenix wrote...
To be fair, he makes the effort of studying governance and becomes more involved and willing, which I think is essential for being a good king (not the only important thing of course). He does become more self-centered than he already was (except he has "more spine" to act on that now), but that *can* make him more efficient as king (could also make him worse, seeing how he is not the most rational person around). Even though yes, his threesome thing is meeh, I share Morrigan's opinion on the whole concept.
And Alistair demands the crown to kill Loghain even as unhardened. Stupid thing to do either way.
I'll grant you that hardened Alistair is better for the kingdom than unhardened Alistair, but only barely. I guess it all comes down to what one wants in a leader, and what type of leader one thinks is best for Ferelden. I cannot draw what I think are kingly, leadership qualities from Alistair, not even via hardening. I wanted him to be strong enough not only to stand up for himself, but also to stand strong for Ferelden.
The whole hardening experience seems to be more about making headway towards what is better for Alistair personally, and not what is better for him as the leader of Ferelden. The Landsmeet accepts him as a king practically only for his bloodline, yet he'll still take a queen who cannot give him an heir. In other games, he'll easily accept a mistress, even though he'd previously been arguing to maintain the honor of whomever he would be making his queen. The way I see it, unhardened, he doesn't have the 'spine' to uphold his duty, and hardened he's too self-centered to uphold it (to a standard that I consider to be 'good for Ferelden').