Zandilar wrote...
I want to say something about the defensive reactions of some posters to the suggestion that Aveline is butch, but I'm not really sure where to start. And I don't really feel like inadvertently insulting people this early in the morning (oh, okay, it's like 9:30am where I am at the moment as I post this, but it's early enough).
Does anyone have any examples of Aveline being particularly feminine during the game? I already provided an example of her being "masculine" in her attempts court Donnic.
Hmm.... I don't know if I feel that giving a present to someone you care for is masculine, hell, I did that when I first meet my husband. And he is a bigger romantic than me so I have given him flowers as well, a big bunch of red roses

I guess that Avelines way of courtship wasn't what Donnic expected but I wouldn't call it masculine. Unusual perhaps? I baked cinnamonbuns and brought it to uni, Aveline is a smith so she made something in metal. Is it perhaps not the act of giving that you thought was masculine but the nature of the gift?
In order to really respond I guess I would want to define what is masculine and what is feminine, but it doesn't really feel like the point of this tread.
But if I have to, I would say taking care of people might be seen as a feminine thing perhaps. It doesn't have to be done in the role of cooking and such. Aveline always watches out for Hawke, remember the conversation you first have with her in the keep. I says that she's been keeping her eyes on you. She trains her guards herself so that she knows they are ready for the real thing.
Hmm... I wouldn't say that using your position in an organization to take actions in order to make someone happy is butch or masculine. It's just using an advantage. Must confess that when my hubby and I was in the same uni-thing we were part of a group that welcomed new students. I had a hand in scheduling so I shamelessly switched things around so that we would be working at the same time :innocent: Don't know if it makes me a bad person, but it worked