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Shadow_broker wrote...
Im referring to americans in general



Well, don't, because they don't all agree with you.

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You need to read your Greek history some more.


History lesson for you: the Spartans (the uber-men featured in 300 and GREEKS) encouraged homosexuality between young soldiers and their older mentors. This close relationship continued until men were married, and it was common practice for men to cut their wives hair, make them wear male clothes and use other techniques to disguise their femininity until they got used to the woman parts. Extra marital affairs between men were only frowned upon because the ultimate service to the State was to produce children and two men cannot do so..


If I'm not mistaken, Samurai had a similar practice with young boys only they were dressed up as young women.

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People aren't as open to S/S romance as normal romance, If i saw this in my game i would probaly not finish it, Or start over. I'm not stating it's fair i'm stating i have a problem with it as a straight gamer and would prefer if they kept gay romances abit more toned down till it's more socially accepted in the modern world


It depends on what kind of people you're talking about. Other parts of the world are far more tolerant than America, if that's what you're trying to insinuate. Now here's the question: If the romance was there but you never saw it because you, as the player, never triggered it, would you just stop playing simply because it's there?

If your answer if no, then that's understandable because some people feel uncomfortable in such situations. No harm done.

If your answer is yes, then.. I'm done here.

^_^


No is my answer
But seeing as zevran hitting on me in orignal dragon age happend on all 3 of my playthroughs unless i was a complete ass to him i expect the next gay romance to come up as well

Btw i do live in America but to the best of my knowledge that's where the majiorty of the gaming community lies. along with a few asian countries which i doubt is much more accepting of gay culture than us


Obviously you know very little of Japan. And by 'us' I hope you're not referring to me.


Im referring to americans in general
I do not know much of japan or asian culture in general for that matter, But i'm pretty sure the largest asian country China is very against Homosexual romance (correct me if i'm wrong)


The original geisha were actually Chinese men who were, at times, saught after more than their female counterparts. Perhaps due to the fact that there would be no risk of pregnancy should they have sex. I'm unsure. And, traditionally, so long as the men sired children, no one was particularly against same-sex couples. In some views it is even seen as very natural. With the philosophy Zhuangzi, anything that was abnormal became entirely normal.

Modern China, today, is still pushing for same-sex marriage country-wide. So, no, China isn't nearly as intolerant as you probably thought, most notably with recent changes and pushes for equal rights.

That and I think games such as DA sell more heavily in Japan, anyway, which is... Well, homosexuality is almost revered in certain circles.

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 I completely understand. I think it's just  the idea that sounds a little.. "eh." for me.  I mean, if they incorporate it, then so be it! I'll probably try it out since I never have before! I just hope they make it a bit more tasteful than your average shy mage who makes you want to pinch his or her cheeks.

^_^


If they do put a character like that in, I hope you'll like it.Image IPB

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I also i'm fine with the fact that thedas has gays in it, i just think some things can go too far...


Like ever actually having to see and deal with gay people?

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Aspects of their culture were disgusting, Did the Parthenon actually have any aspects of pedophiles in it? I believe it was art dedicated to athena no older men touching young boys were involved in the making, no? Making it a completley diffrent subject matter
In this Modern age many cultures have done both great and horryfying things in retrospect and to ignore them is silly IMO
Early america for example fully embraced slavery which i find horrid as an african american but today has become a pinnicale of equal rights and freedoms. but that dosen't make up for the wrongs they did


Because pedophiles only existed in ancient Greece. Are you ready to condemn every society as disgusting, then? Or just the gay friendly ones? Because if you want to talk pedophilia, look at the Catholic church. 

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Riona45 wrote...

Shadow_broker wrote...
Im referring to americans in general



Well, don't, because they don't all agree with you.


Sorry but in this case I agree with Shadow.  I was upset thwat burrito spoke out against Zevran and got banned.

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MariSkep wrote...

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1)Here's a straw. Guess what I'm about to say.
2)No real evidence to say Henry V was straight either. Out of curiosity what would you consider evidence for someone's sexuality?
3)No you were just trying to paint homosexuality as pedophilic in nature. Totally different. Right.


1.most likley an insult to my person and not related to arguement
2. We have strong evidence to support alex was married to 2 women, i consider that sufficent to a person nature of sexuality
3. You're going too far by saying that, I in no way meant to imply Homosexuals were related to pedophiles in anyway, I was pointing out the flaws of greek culture nothing more
It was a side note not related to my other two arguements in otherwords

1)I thought you were more clever than that. 
2)Marriage is often political. A conquering king coming into foreign lands had to win over the people somehow and establish a legitmate line. Attraction isn't high on the list of what the concubine must have. She's there for an heir. 

Alexander's bosom buddy on the other hand...
3)Yeah, sure, whatever. You said it and the insinuation is as clear cut as they come.


1.I was right you're attacking my person
2.Often political but not always, Who's to say alexander didn't fall in love with one of his wives or what her inention was for marrying him
3.No it really wasn't, You just twisted my words to demonize me as hateful or ignorant

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Shadow_broker wrote...

Riona45 wrote...

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But seeing as zevran hitting on me in orignal dragon age happend on all 3 of my playthroughs unless i was a complete ass to him i expect the next gay romance to come up as well


I guess you never figured out that you didn't have to even accept him into your band?  Wow...

Anyway, it is canon that Thedas has gay people in it, and the people developing the setting haven't ignored them, either.  If you want to keep playing DA games, you'll have to deal with this fact.


He's the only rogue who dosen't use the crappy bow
I needed him for gameplay purposes and to kill a intresting character purley due to his orientation is silly to me although i did not like his pushy Gay personality i found his Antivan crow stories intresting

I also i'm fine with the fact that thedas has gays in it, i just think some things can go too far and felt in a discusion thread i should let my voice be heard


Pushy gay personality?
...There's such thing as a gay personality? Why not just say he was a pushy flirt? Because he flirts with you regardless of your PCs sex and, ergo, saying he had a pushy 'gay' personality becomes null. He even says he prefers women.

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Riona45 wrote...

Shadow_broker wrote...
Im referring to americans in general



Well, don't, because they don't all agree with you.


around 50% do

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Sorry but in this case I agree with Shadow.  I was upset thwat burrito spoke out against Zevran and got banned.


I'm sorry you lost an alt account.

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realyoungjeezy wrote...

Riona45 wrote...

Shadow_broker wrote...
Im referring to americans in general



Well, don't, because they don't all agree with you.


Sorry but in this case I agree with Shadow.  I was upset thwat burrito spoke out against Zevran and got banned.

burrito had it coming.

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Why do all these threads turn into fights?



The writers will do what they do, and I don't think either side has any real influence over them in this regard.



They will write a bisexual or gay character if they want to. They will make said character a romance option if they want to. Or they may not.



Regardless there are already plenty of varied gay and bisexual characters in Thedas, from crazies like Branka to regular blacksmiths like Wade and Herran, and even if there is no same sex romance option, there probably will continue to be all kinds of sexuality in Dragon Age.

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If they do put a character like that in, I hope you'll like it.Image IPB

Psh.

I think we all know that if there ever was a character like that, fan fiction would quickly corrupt them!

I think that's why I lean more towards the gruff 'n rough personality. You don't have much room to tweak them without completely going out of character.

Of course, I don't want another Carth... Maker, no. It wouldn't be worth the effort.

:P

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Riona45 wrote...

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Sorry but in this case I agree with Shadow.  I was upset thwat burrito spoke out against Zevran and got banned.


I'm sorry you lost an alt account.


He's a rl friend but not my alt account.

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MariSkep wrote...

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I also i'm fine with the fact that thedas has gays in it, i just think some things can go too far...


Like ever actually having to see and deal with gay people?


Are you serious?
I never even said i was against homosexuality, Just that it could go to far
Your making assumptions from nothing

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Mabari romance anyone?

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oenis wrote...

Shadow_broker wrote...

Aspects of their culture were disgusting, Did the Parthenon actually have any aspects of pedophiles in it? I believe it was art dedicated to athena no older men touching young boys were involved in the making, no? Making it a completley diffrent subject matter
In this Modern age many cultures have done both great and horryfying things in retrospect and to ignore them is silly IMO
Early america for example fully embraced slavery which i find horrid as an african american but today has become a pinnicale of equal rights and freedoms. but that dosen't make up for the wrongs they did


Because pedophiles only existed in ancient Greece. Are you ready to condemn every society as disgusting, then? Or just the gay friendly ones? Because if you want to talk pedophilia, look at the Catholic church. 


Oh dear, please don't turn this into a possible religious bash.

I would go with America in general, considering how many convicted pedophiles go to prison.

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1)I thought you were more clever than that. 
2)Marriage is often political. A conquering king coming into foreign lands had to win over the people somehow and establish a legitmate line. Attraction isn't high on the list of what the concubine must have. She's there for an heir. 

Alexander's bosom buddy on the other hand...
3)Yeah, sure, whatever. You said it and the insinuation is as clear cut as they come.


1.I was right you're attacking my person
2.Often political but not always, Who's to say alexander didn't fall in love with one of his wives or what her inention was for marrying him
3.No it really wasn't, You just twisted my words to demonize me as hateful or ignorant


1)I actually wasn't. I was going to tell you to suck it the **** up again. 'Here's a straw. Suck it the **** up.' Is something I used to get told a lot. Figured it had to be common.
2)...which you have zero evidence of. Pot calling the kettle black. You can't assume one scenario is more likely than another when the facts don't point that way.
3)Please. If I wanted to do that I would just step aside and let you continue acting like a tool without pointing out to you everyone here (who isn't a troll) thinks you're a tool.

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Rogue Unit wrote...

Mabari romance anyone?

hellz yea

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CrookedAsylum wrote...

Shadow_broker wrote...

Riona45 wrote...

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But seeing as zevran hitting on me in orignal dragon age happend on all 3 of my playthroughs unless i was a complete ass to him i expect the next gay romance to come up as well


I guess you never figured out that you didn't have to even accept him into your band?  Wow...

Anyway, it is canon that Thedas has gay people in it, and the people developing the setting haven't ignored them, either.  If you want to keep playing DA games, you'll have to deal with this fact.


He's the only rogue who dosen't use the crappy bow
I needed him for gameplay purposes and to kill a intresting character purley due to his orientation is silly to me although i did not like his pushy Gay personality i found his Antivan crow stories intresting

I also i'm fine with the fact that thedas has gays in it, i just think some things can go too far and felt in a discusion thread i should let my voice be heard


Pushy gay personality?
...There's such thing as a gay personality? Why not just say he was a pushy flirt? Because he flirts with you regardless of your PCs sex and, ergo, saying he had a pushy 'gay' personality becomes null. He even says he prefers women.

My bad he had a pushy personality in general
But i only played a male warden so i am speaking from my expiernce

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Hawke's right hand for DA:2 love interest!

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Shadow_broker wrote...

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I also i'm fine with the fact that thedas has gays in it, i just think some things can go too far...


Like ever actually having to see and deal with gay people?


Are you serious?
I never even said i was against homosexuality, Just that it could go to far
Your making assumptions from nothing


So how far is to far? Gay lovers kissing in front of you? Gay men hitting on you? Tell me when I'm making you uncomfortable.

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Rogue Unit wrote...

Mabari romance anyone?


A Mabari romance could be interesting.

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exoproto wrote...

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If they do put a character like that in, I hope you'll like it.Image IPB

Psh.

I think we all know that if there ever was a character like that, fan fiction would quickly corrupt them!


Well, when looked at that way, any character can be corrupted.Image IPB  A long time ago, I came across Baldur's Gate 2 fic that made Aerie's sweet personality into a front--she was really an evil, sadistic priestess of Loviatar, goddess of pain (!).  Of course, that story was written by someone who hated the character.

Of course, I don't want another Carth... Maker, no. It wouldn't be worth the effort.

:P


LOL!  Although, I actually enjoyed Carth.Image IPB