Monica21 wrote...
And as a reply to other thoughts, I'm staggered that people actually think that Anora is still a virgin because she "doesn't like to be touched." A lot of queens don't like to be touched, especially if they don't know where their husband's ****** has been, but wives in medieval times didn't exactly choose not to be virgins. You had sex on your wedding night and were there when your husband wanted you. Not to mention that she's too smart to use the ice queen excuse to refuse Cailan. She knows that doing so will lead him to other women and the possibility of bastard children. That would be utterly stupid on her part.
I've seen it suggested, and thought of it myself, that one of the main reasons Anora has no children is perhaps a nervous reluctance/fear of childbirth. After all, in the Medieval world, childbirth was an incredibly dangerous enterprise, with very high infant and maternal deaths during birth. We don't know exactly when or how Anora's mother died, for all we know, she could have died giving birth to a second child that died also. Or Anora is just quite nervous by the prospect.
As you said, she also could, at least as far as Cailan was concerned, grown rather cool towards him as a result of his numerous affairs. I certainly would not be eager to jump in the sack with a husband that ran around screwing about. That would certainly be a passion killer. And Cailan was weak enough that Anora could delay or put off sex with him more often than not. I'd not blame her.
Though Anora is smart enough to understand that her main role is birthing an heir, she is also clever and manipulative enough that she could probably wind her way through that minefield and work things to her advantage. And until someone produces a bastard of Cailan's, which, given the nature of the Bannorn and Ferelden politics in general, should have been produced and utilized by now, it seems likely Cailan shot blanks.