Suprez30 wrote...
I don't hate Wynne at all . Yes it's a cliche but it's also true .Elderly people know more than you.Because they had much more time to think about what they have done than you .
The 20 years old guy tapping every chick in the camp during a critical mission should be second guessed.You're not a veteran . You're a freshly recruited Grey Warden and if i were into his shoes i would certaintly love advice from someone who has much more experience than my character.
Does she make mistake? Of course.But it's remind me of those people basicly going wild when they're true because it's give me lever over someone else.It's childish and immature and annoying.
During all of your life ppl that care about you , will lecture you.get over it and .....grow up?
I'm sorry, Wynne learned about the gray wardens how? So she knows more about them how? And your sex life is her business now? A warden in a caring relationship needs to be told to break up and hurt herself and someone she cares for why?
Now, keep in mind, YOU are the leader of the group -- the commanding officer if you must. She asked to follow you, you did not ask her. So already, that puts her on shaky ground when she gives advice -- it better be DAMN good.
Ok, we DO know this about Wynne and the advice she gives:
She knows nothing of the Gray Wardens other than what she's heard in legends, and often gives advice that is actually contradictory to Gray Warden principles because she believes in the fairy tales.
Wynne does not object if you're having sex with Morrigan and Zevran at the same time so it's not about her being upset about you "tapping" everyone you can. She objects when the relationship turns serious (when the person hits adore).
She tells you, outright and with zero basis, that she's worried you will shirk your duties as a Gray Warden if you're in a relationship. This is, to put it mildly, is a very offensive thing to tell the person who is in charge. Of course, once you fall in love, she apologizes, but wouldn't the risk be GREATER then? It seems like something else is going on there.
Wynne turned down being first enchanter, but she wants a mage warden to drop the Gray Warden duties if she survives the blight to make the changes to the Circle that Wynne feels should be made, but that she refused to attempt to do herself. And gets upset with you if you tell her you're a gray warden and YOU don't want to be first enchanter.
Wynne will lecture on and on about how your Ferelden's only hope, and that you must put duty above personal feelings, yet she will try to kill you at one point, which means she puts her personal feelings above stopping the blight. Maybe what you did was heinous, but is that any reason to try and kill the people who you think are the only ones who can save Ferelden?
Sometimes I think her advice is actually against herself. These are mistakes she has made, and she expects the warden to repeat them but does not really have the basis even for that. Because nothing I see in the Warden's behavior warrants the advice given.
Or perhaps she's one of those people who are not nearly as smart nor as intuitive as they think. I do know a few of those, but not all are older
Edit: We also know that Wynne overestimates her own power. Had it not been for the warden, she would have kept a barrier erect until the templars came. Even if she DID manage to fight her way to the sloth demon, she never would have escaped the nightmare. Yet, when all is said and done, she thinks she did it, "with help." Hmmmm, that she attacks the warden in a couple of circumstances kind of reinforces that. She overestimates herself, and greatly underestimates the warden.
Ah well, I know people DO take pointing out Wynne's flaws as a personal insult. I'm not quite sure why, but whatever.
Modifié par ejoslin, 27 octobre 2010 - 04:59 .
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