JohnEpler wrote...
Guys, shemale is a rather offensive term, particularly to some members of our community. Please avoid it in the future.
Shemale is in reference to a pre-op transexual who aspires in the field of pornography. It doesn't compare to certain other words which are actually prohibited in our society. The offense here is similar to calling a non-****/prostitute a ****/prostitute. Although it's offensive to many to refer to another preo-op transexual as a shemale if she does not meet the above criteria, I don't see how it's offensive to refer to a fictional character as one, seeing as how one can't hurt a fictional character's feelings and that being fictional is an indication that the character doesn't exist.
For that matter, I don't see how words should even be regarded as "offensive" when the message carried with them (which is the purpose of all words) is not always intended to convey offense. In this case, the gentleman used the word in reference to Isabela, for the purpose of conveying the notion that although she was a woman, she still possessed a masculine appearance. Had he come out and said this in the way I phrased it just now, the message would be no different.
There is a certain word (which I shall not use here) which those amongst the African American community use (and don't bother calling me a racist, as I'm African American myself

) amongst each other to refer to
comrades. When we use the word to describe each other or say the word in any other instance, it's okay, but it's politically incorrect for anyone else to use the word, even in the context which we use it in.
Or how about saying
son of a ****? Depending on context, this can be regarded as offensive. However, I notice that many people utter the phrase to voice their misfortune. For instance, a gentleman may be oepning up a can of soda which has unknowingly been shaken. Upon opening the can and seeing the soda pour out, the gentleman may be inclined to say "son of a ****", in spite of not calling anyone that.
There's also the matter of choosing to forbid others to participate in certain conversations or use certain words because someone else is offened. From what I've learned in life, just about ANYTHING can offend someone else. I believe you (Mr. Eplar) spoke of being in charge of returns at a convenience store, thus surely you must understand this. People even get offended by the DEVS here, believing that they are out to ruin the game and make certain crowds miserable. Communication being as imperfect as it is, offense is inevitable. Thus, I don't agree on simply forbidding a certain practice solely on the basis that some people might get offended.
Of course, there are rules to this site I assume. Such as upholding the verdict or the devs or mods. I don't agree with this verdict, but have no interest in pursuing the matter (probably without success), thus I suppose I shall agree not to use terms deemed offensive to some.
Toodles.
PS: If anyone disagrees with me, send me a PM and I'll be happy to clarify. This post itself is only midly on topic (since it mentions the manly Isabela

) and I don't wish to encourage potential off topic discussion.
Modifié par Perfect-Kenshin, 27 octobre 2010 - 12:33 .