The Ethereal Writer Redux wrote...
Oh, and as for Anders, I think the reason why people go friendship is because that even if you're pro-mage yet anti-Anders, he treats you like you're anti-mage.
That's at least why I can never Rival Anders anymore.
I had that issue a lot at first, but now I just figure... he's
crazy. This is a guy who, by the end of Act III, genuinely believes that it's mages vs mundanes, and one must fall; that it's good, or even possible, for mages to win a fight where the battle lines are drawn between "those with magic" and "those without." It seems perfectly reasonable to me that he would
interpret a completely pro-mage Hawke as totally anti-mage and belligerent and the enemy just because said Hawke disagrees with his methods or is suspicious of Justice. He is the cause of mages, remember? If you don't agree 100% with him you don't agree with the cause of mages. Regardless of how many you've protected or set free. And you don't actually have to be anti-mage in his midstage or endstage QB; there are plenty of dialog options to make your disagreement with him about Justice/Vengeance and Anders' obsession instead.
ladyshamen wrote...
Thank you whykik, he said he wanted a 'Han Solo' type. Smart a-- with a good heart. I was trying to make him look ready to jump a ship with Isabela and sail off into the sunset
I have GOT to make a Hawke to romance her myself, I'm thinking about a FemHawke tho.
MainHawke would do that in a hot second. I had to Circle Beth, despite it being slightly out of character, because there was no other way she'd stay in Kirkwall more than ten minutes past Leandra's funeral otherwise. It'd be like "so about that ship you keep wanting, Isabela. Let's steal one. Now."
(By the way I'm going to strongly second the recommendation to go with a female Hawke.

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Anyway I like him, he does have that roguish-but-sweet look to him, very up Izzy's alley.
As for the rest, I'm not sure about the Rivalry in terms of making her a better person; as someone here said far upthread, I'd feel better if I could feel sure she wanted to change because it was right and not because it would make Hawke happier. One reason I'm generally more comfortable with the Rival path as a friendship, as it lacks that "I want to be someone you'd want to be with" sentiment. The Friend path is a bit weird in that way too, though, I guess. She sort of decides to let Hawke be her moral compass and trust that what she says is right, is right, which might bother me too if Hawke was a less passive laissez-faire sort of person.