Jedi Master of Orion wrote...
Isn't Isabella the only one that Anders doesn't complain about if you bring your love interest into the sewers near the end of the game?
Yeah. I agree with Hooray on that, I don't think he takes her seriously as a LI. He's not threatened because it's
Isabela, she'll flit along to someone new soon enough and he'll sweep in to show Hawke what
real love and devotion looks like. And she's not a blood mage or magister-obsessed so she's not poisoning Hawke with any undue influence in the meantime, so no reason for him to freak on that account either.
I think probably their relationship depends a bit on Isabela's Friend/Rival status. There's those two conversations about the Tome in Act III that I swear to Andraste have
got to be bugged. In one, he's friendly, approving; he's proud of her for bringing the Tome back and teases her about being less selfish than she pretends to be. In the other he's vicious and condemnatory, lambasting her for her frivolous irresponsibility. Obviously Anders is more than a little erratic in his opinions, but I can't believe those two conversations are supposed to coexist in the same playthrough. I suspect the intention was that Friended Isabela, who sort of subtly becomes more moral over time, has a somewhat equitable relationship with Anders; they're not close or anything, but she believes in freedom and does the right thing when it counts, and he gives her free healing and has a reasonable sense of humor, so they're generally pluses in each other's books. Meanwhile Rival Izzy, who's kind of reactionary and snappish about her morality as a result of being lectured all the time, irritates Anders with her feckless, dangerous-to-bystanders lifestyle and gets all pompous at her, so of course she resents him in kind.
I do wonder if his opinion on her isn't a bit more complex even than that, though. She's who he used to be, and he's said he misses that, that sometimes he wishes he could go back. That usually makes for an interesting mix of envy and disdain even on top of Anders' other issues in relating to people.
As for her, I'm not sure she cares so much if he self-destructs; actually warning him off his path (or at least trying to) is more of a Varric thing. I think she just wants him to shut up about the Cause for five minutes because everyone in the group is a lot more fun when they're not talking about mages and templars.