Aermas wrote...
Maria Caliban wrote...
Aermas wrote...
Why is everyone (including females) holding to the double standard? If man sleeps around he is an "expletive"
I don't see any female holding to a double standard. I see females who don't think men or women who have several sexual partners are morally less than those who remain chaste.
People are putting words in others mouths about morality & what their view are, if I say I don't like Isabela people think I am a misogynistic S.O.B. Every time someone says she is promiscuous they say the same old tired line that guys do it and are lauded while women do it & are ridiculed. I don't like it when people do that so I stated the fact that I think anyone who is that open in their sexuality is not classy, man, woman or darkspawn. Any woman who calls me a misogynist is for thinking this is wrong because I hold men to the same measuring stick. Chivalry isn't dead, but to many liberal ideas are killing it
Liberals did not invent the idea of having multiple partners. It's existed throughout human history and certainly predates modern, American political terms.
If you feel strongly about men and women restricting themselves sexually, that's fine. However, others don't feel that way, and in the sentence I quoted, you're suggesting that the men and women in this thread are showing a double standard. I am simply arguing that for the most part that isn't the case.
If women continuously call you a misogynist, my suggestion would be to not say 'women who have many partners are X' but to say 'men and women who have many partners are X.'
Nip it in the bud.