PsychoBlonde wrote...
I wouldn't assume the Tal-Vashoth "don't care" about the Qun. Depending on why they left they may hate it in a deeply personal way. And (from talking to Sten) Qunari seem VERY attached to their people, so deciding to leave the only life they've ever known may be intensely and deeply traumatic to them, inducing all kinds of horrific psychological issues.
Self-mutilation is actually one way of dealing with psychological pain--it can be like lancing an abcess and letting it drain by bringing what's going on inside your head into realization in the outer world. It is an outlet and a release--and physical pain is over remarkably quickly compared to the other kind. For the Tal-Vashoth, removing their horns may be a powerful symbolic cutting-of-ties that lets them get on with their lives.
You would have to assume that every single qunari who leaves Par Vollen would feel the exact same way about renouncing the Qun and subsequently react in the exact same way to their "pain". That's alittle silly, don't you think? Remember, EVERY SINGLE QUNARI YOU ENCOUNTER IS HORNLESS.
Why are you even discussing this as if there is some rational reasoning behind why no qunari in origins has horns. The reason is simple: Bioware did not originally envision them to have horns. Nor did they originally envison them to be grey skined troglodyte-looking demonkin. No amount of excuses and afterthought is going to erase that fact.
The funny thing about it is that, if they didn't want to admit to a retcon, they could have easily made the qunari a multi racial society. Technically, a qunari is a follower of the qun regardless of physical attributes (at least that's how its made out to be). Qunari is a word akin to Muslim, Christian or Buddhist. So Sten could have simply been a different race within the qunari than the ones with horns. Bioware's writters are really slipping up these days.
And, depending on how the horns are anchored to the skull, it might be fairly easy to remove them without leaving a mark, much like pulling a tooth. People don't have big scars where teeth were removed, just smooth featureless gum that has healed over the gap. They had to dig into my jawbone to get my wisdom teeth out, and I can't even tell that they pulled out a big hunk of bony protrusion there. From what the devs say, Qunari horns are more like rhinocerous horns anyway, they aren't solid chunks of bone. So while it probably hurts like hell, it's not going to be permanent obvious damage.
You do know that removing a rhino's horn will leave more than just a mark. There is still going to be horn material left over. And if you cut off the root itself you will leave a huge pit that would probably become infected. That's like saying if you pull a fingernail off the skin will heal perfectly and you would never know that something was missing. Or that if you cut off a chunk of skin that new skin would heal over it without a trace of injury. This simply is not true. Not all tissue is the same. Even in the case of gum tissue it does not necessarily heal up completely. I've had mine out since 2005 and I still have a crevice from where the lower wisdom teeth once sat requiring quarterly dental cleanings.