KnightofPhoenix wrote...
I actually wish he didn't say anything at all. Because asking someone who had to watch his / her family die "have you lost someone?" and then "oops, I forgot" can be more hurtful than not talking about it at all.
Oh, I agree. But, it's also more human, to me. Not that this is a "perfect' example, but let me share this. My husband lost his mother this past May. My dad had hip surgery in September and due to some complications, wound up on the operating table quite a bit longer than expected. I was so caught up with my worry about my father, I made a comment to my husband about being afraid I was going to lose my dad, completely, in that moment, forgetting that he had just recently lost his mother (even though I was THERE when she passed).
So, although my example is nothing like the game scenario, I completely understand how someone can be so caught up in their own grief or worry or whatever, that they "forget" about what another person's going through. It's not pretty, and it hurts, but it
is human.
And in case anyone cares, my dad's doing great and is scheduled to get his other hip done just after the first of the year!