I think the argument about how female body image is
represented in the media is a fair argument, but to dismiss the idea that men
are also misrepresented would be hypocritical.
I think it comes down to how both men and women are socialized in our very pro-masculine
society. At a very early age, girls are told they should like color pink,
should aspire to be princesses, and that it is okay to cry. Little boys are
told that they should like the color blue, should aspire to be football
players, and that they should not cry (be a man; punch a hole in the wall)!
In the real world, such as in business (bunch of cut throats), masculinity is
dominant; there is no room for femininity. This is why women have a harder time
becoming more successful than their male counterparts, and what gave rise to
the feminist movement. Little boys are cultured at an early age how to succeed
in the business world, while little girls are not. Feminists often dislike any
media depicting woman as submissive to men because of the history of our
culture, and because the lack of true equality. This dislike branched off into
body image once it was found that anorexia and bulimia were on the rise in
young teenage woman, and fingers were pointed at the media, or our culture, for
good reason.
Now at a purely subjective stand point, the same argument can be made for men
and body image. However; body image for men is not as nearly a focal point for
the media as it is for women. We often have powerful masculine men, who are
represented by tight abs and strong shoulders, along with powerful men that
have double chins and beer bellies. The focal point being that both these stereotypes
are represented as being "powerful,” which is an adjective that our
culture suggests in unattainable for someone who is feminine.
I'd say there is a bigger crime in telling men they shouldn’t be feminine, than
telling them they should be masculine...because masculinity is viewed as a GOOD THING.
Men are said to be out of touch with their children's emotions, which is the
epitome of my favorite stereotype "stupid dad." Hell..."stupid
dad" is the only stereotype that is okay for the media to poke fun of
anymore. You all know the type: fat slob, married to a hot mom, who never quite
understands what he did wrong to hurt his wife’s feelings. It’s because
masculinity has no room for feelings.
Sexuality seems to be the point of confusion for most people because sexuality
is usually associated with the ideal female: big chest and curvy/thin figure,
or the ideal male: thick neck and wash board stomached. In reality, sexuality
can be boiled down to how comfortable you are with your body image. So if you
can't reach these "standards" that our society has hammered into our
minds, you may have poor body image. And thanks to the wonders of our culture,
men are told they can't express their discontent about having poor body image,
while women are told that they should cry over it, or express why it is a
problem for only them.
I hope in some way this helps clarify, any indesivness about equality for men and women in DA:2.
Modifié par Luigitornado, 05 novembre 2010 - 07:40 .