AkumaBear wrote...
EccentricSage wrote...
Well, her flaws would be that once she takes a liking to someone, she lets them shape who she is.
I wouldn't consider being easliy influenced a flaw. Being weak minded would be one though.
"I think she is the type of girl who intentionaly plays the role of Marry-Sue in conversation, but in reality, we know she took up being a Bard of her own free will, and thus killed and possibly tortured of her own free will. "
(Torture? What torture?)
I suppose this could be counted as one, but it depends on perspective. You character spends the entire game killing things.In game we don't see much of her being ruthless, nor is she condemned for it. Like it's a flaw that isn't considered one.
"I think that could be considered a character flaw. She lies a lot, to the warden, to her companions, and quite possibly even to herself. Perhaps she was so good at being the performer who could be whatever her mark wants, that she no longer knows really who she is, and can't stop acting?"
Is lying even a big deal in DA? Does anyone dislike her for lying?
Most companions lie to you at some point. 
All companions have character flaws. The circumstances of the game do not change that. I stand by that yes, those are character flaws. It's important that the characters have flaws, of course, or everyone would be Marry-Sues.

I do see Lelliana as week minded. She pretty much lets the Warden decide how she reacts to Marjolain's last words. She let the Warden lead her by the nose quite a lot, with exceptions for religion... the only topic that gets a strong response out of her. Most of the time, she came off as playing up a role, and when you tell her you think she should embrace her past, BOOM, changes up her roleplay.
As for her not showing ruthlessness in the game, yeah... but we know from her dialogue that she was rutheless in her past as a Bard. No less rutheless than Zevran. The way she talks about what fun it was on one hand, but then pretends to find ruthelessness abhorent because she's pretending to be reformed, is a flaw, IMO. A flaw that makes her unlikable for me. She's a hypocrit.
A fan could take ruthelessness as a flaw, or take hypocracy reguarding ruthelessness as a flaw. I lean more towards the latter, otherwise I wouldn't like Zevran.
Oh... that reminds me... She places religion above loyalty or stopping the Blight. To a fan who is religious in a simular manner as her, I'm sure that seems relatable. But to me, that's a huge flaw. She also is hypocritical about her religion. On one hand, she will tell you a bit of a sob story about how the Chantry Sisters scorned her for having a difference of religious belief, yet she pesters Morrigan, trying to proselitize, and also gets annoyed at the Warden if he says he disagrees with her views, or if he poses a hypothetical contradiction in her religious views. She expects others to treat her views better than she treats theirs. She had snapped at me for pointing out that if the Maker created the Blight to punish mankind, then to try to end the Blight would be defying his will. That really is one of my favorite dialogue options ever! Props to her writer for that one! OMG! XD Needless to say I nearly died when Zevran started picking on her about her vission. XD