Elven and i want ANSWERS!
To start us off, if some one smells, do you stay with it? or pull out?
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Hugging [Etiquette]
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Posté 19 novembre 2010 - 03:04
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Discuss the proper way to hug a person, time how hard and when its socially acceptable to end a hug early.
Elven and i want ANSWERS!
To start us off, if some one smells, do you stay with it? or pull out?
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Elven and i want ANSWERS!
To start us off, if some one smells, do you stay with it? or pull out?
[Thread title corrected]
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Posté 19 novembre 2010 - 02:42
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Firstly you have to mean it.Tyler Durden30303 wrote...
Discuss the proper way to hug a person,
Bear hugs are acceptable no matter the situation.
If you haven't bathed in a few days a hand shake or even a nod of appreciation will suffice.
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Posté 19 novembre 2010 - 02:45
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I am really a bad hugger. Last time a Grizzly bear died.
Ok well, seriously speaking friends tell me that hugging me is like hugging something big and soft and warm, and is generally a nice feeling (my size it appears makes me more of a huggable object
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Ok well, seriously speaking friends tell me that hugging me is like hugging something big and soft and warm, and is generally a nice feeling (my size it appears makes me more of a huggable object
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Posté 19 novembre 2010 - 02:51
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Funny thing this is national creep someone out day.....
Anyhow I wrap my arms around the person and stick by butt out or if it's a girl press my body tight up against her body.
Anyhow I wrap my arms around the person and stick by butt out or if it's a girl press my body tight up against her body.
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Posté 19 novembre 2010 - 02:59
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I don't initiate hugs ever unless it's my family. If someone hugs me then I go with the flow and it's usually a second or two medium strength embrace with maybe a little pat on the back.
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Posté 19 novembre 2010 - 03:25
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lol um, For the record, the problem I have with hugs is people holding on to long.... its awkward....
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Posté 19 novembre 2010 - 03:30
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In those cases, all you have to do is jump on the ground...Tyler Durden30303 wrote...
lol um, For the record, the problem I have with hugs is people holding on to long.... its awkward....
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Posté 19 novembre 2010 - 03:40
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... or start brawling. Whatever you like better
Sure not the nicest response to a hug which is given with so much affection, but still.
Sure not the nicest response to a hug which is given with so much affection, but still.
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Posté 19 novembre 2010 - 04:48
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The word is Etiquette. Sorry. It had to be said. I only bring it up because I couldn't actually tell what the thread was about from the title.
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Posté 21 novembre 2010 - 11:01
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If you are a man, you must never show your feelings, and so you must never hug someone unless it's your old comrade at whose side you've fought since the beginning of a war and there's plenty of vodka to go around.
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Posté 21 novembre 2010 - 11:17
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when you hug another dood make sure it's not longer then 3 sec or it'll turn into a sasuage fest.
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Posté 21 novembre 2010 - 11:21
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People always want hugs....but I get very uncomfortable giving them.
So Rule #1 for people should always be to know: NOT EVERYONE WANTS A HUG.
So Rule #1 for people should always be to know: NOT EVERYONE WANTS A HUG.
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Posté 21 novembre 2010 - 11:26
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Well, who wouldn't want to hug you....just saying!
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Posté 21 novembre 2010 - 11:33
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In real life i'm not a very huggy person. I don't like people going in mah persinol space.
But I'm a really good E~hugger! ;D
But I'm a really good E~hugger! ;D
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Posté 21 novembre 2010 - 11:35
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I only Hug Girls ....and I give manly hugs boys .
Like the HANDSHAKE HUG !
HO HO !
Like the HANDSHAKE HUG !
HO HO !
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Posté 21 novembre 2010 - 11:39
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Ms. Lovey Dovey wrote...
People always want hugs....but I get very uncomfortable giving them.
So Rule #1 for people should always be to know: NOT EVERYONE WANTS A HUG.
This^
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Posté 22 novembre 2010 - 03:55
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I only give hugs to good friends and family, partially because I am a somewhat enthusiastic and violent hugger. I avoid hugs from strangers or acquaintances due the possibility of pickpocketing.
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Posté 22 novembre 2010 - 04:10
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I only hug people I know, and then they have to be my closest friends. And usually its a tackle hug, lol.
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Posté 22 novembre 2010 - 04:19
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smecky-kitteh wrote...
Ms. Lovey Dovey wrote...
People always want hugs....but I get very uncomfortable giving them.
So Rule #1 for people should always be to know: NOT EVERYONE WANTS A HUG.
This^
Seconded.
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Posté 22 novembre 2010 - 06:48
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Only hugs among friends, opposite gender. But in some regions/cities its more favorable than a handshake when you meet friends' friends.
I like the idea and the feeling although I always feel awkward in such situations (not with closest friends mind you).
What about kisses on the cheeks?
I like the idea and the feeling although I always feel awkward in such situations (not with closest friends mind you).
What about kisses on the cheeks?
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Posté 22 novembre 2010 - 07:22
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Great, but this northern Europe people and Americans don't understand it!hangmans tree wrote...
What about kisses on the cheeks?
I hate hugging
whatever ... strong Handshake is good enough, but I prefer to bow down like Chinese and Japanese salute & farewell
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Posté 22 novembre 2010 - 07:41
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For my brothers in arms, the guys that I have fought in the trenches with, they deserve a manly hug.
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Posté 22 novembre 2010 - 07:59
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Honestly it depends on the person and the situation, and how comfortable one is with their sexuality. I'm a straight male but I have no problem hugging another guy if it is someone I know, a friend, and the moment calls for it or is initiated by said guy.
For women its the same for me: I would have to be close to them, or at least a mutual friend, and they would almost always have to initiate because I'm never one to impose.
So yeah, my main answer is that it depends how comfortable each person is with eachother on hugging, and how much trust is there to begin with.
For women its the same for me: I would have to be close to them, or at least a mutual friend, and they would almost always have to initiate because I'm never one to impose.
So yeah, my main answer is that it depends how comfortable each person is with eachother on hugging, and how much trust is there to begin with.
