Sylvius the Mad wrote...
I'd like your future games to take a wider range of playstyles into account. Your earlier games certainly accommodated them.
During DAO's development you specifically told us that the game wouldn't decide for us how we felt about the details of our background. And for the most part, DAO delivered on that promise. But if we're to play a coherent character, while at the same time populating his set of beliefs and preferences ourselves, then his backstory needs to be ours to command.
If DA2 is not intended to allow us to determine Hawke's personality for ourselves, you might want to let us know.
What if you play a 100 year old Warden, how come he has 60 year old parents? Why can't you play an Achondroplastic dwarf? Why can't you play a character whose legs were destroyed in a terrible riverdancing competition gone amuck? Why can't you play a Genlock raised by Elves? Why can't you play a Warden that caught a terrible elf disease that causes flowers to grow out of his nostrils? Why can't you play a character who grew up on a small island with only a toy ball with a bloody handprint face to talk to?
I mean, at some point you have to realize this isn't a table top game. It's not free form RP. You can't expect them to accommodate every wild background concept -- and yes, asking to have a skin color that is different from your biological parents is pretty wild and practically unwanted to everyone except, well, you.
The fact is, the vast majority of players who had dark skinned characters are thrilled with the fact that our next character will look like his parents. Because... That's sort of how it works, and that's what most of us want. They don't have infinite time to create a limitless world with every background imaginable.
If your entire enjoyment in a game depends on the skin color of your character's parents, then I don't know what to tell you. My Cousland was dark skinned and his parents weren't. I laughed and thought mama's got some explaining to do, and moved on with my life.
Now... you can chin up, stuff your hands in your pockets and say, "alright, I'll just mod it for myself." Or you can continue bickering about a "feature" that almost no one wants and be forever lost to trolling. If you do end up trying to mod the game to accommodate your unique background, there will be more than enough people in the toolset forum that will assist you when the time comes.