joriandrake wrote...
(because a "what?" or "lolwut" comment just feels too less, too late as reaction by now)
If you're having difficulty understanding what I've said, feel free to ask for a more detailed response.
As you're response is 'lolwut,' I'm going to assume that you're not familiar with media studies, gender theory, or other subjects that deal with now cultural norms are created and maintained or how individuals react to them.
I'll try again and this time I'll be more specific and, hopefully, clear.
Each culture has an ideal of attractiveness. Right now, men with hairless chests and bodies tend to be considered attractive. This hasn't always been the case.
Tom Selleck was once considered a very sexy dude.
Now, imagine you're a straight woman or a gay man. You've probably been attracted to men who've had hairy chests. Maybe you don't like them as much as smooth chests or maybe you like them much, much more.
Likewise, if you're a straight guy, you might not see body hair as attractive, but you probably think it's pretty natural and you might even associate it with a sort of rugged, positive masculinity.
Culture says "smooth chests on guys = attractive" but for straight men and women and gay guys, culture will have to balance with
personal experience and preferences.Not so for gay women. In fact, their personal preferences and experiences will probably count against hairy chests.
Better?