Sarah1281 wrote...
I'm going to go out on a limb and say that MOST PEOPLE are a great deal more responsible at 40 than at 20. Maybe 20-year-old Duncan would have slept with Morrigan because she offered but not 40-year-old Duncan. And there is a difference between taking a legitimate risk and potentially dooming all of Thedas (who knows what that baby is capable of or what Flemeth is capable of doing with it?) because he wants one person to live when he's shown himself capable of ruthlessly cutting down his recruits or letting people suffer/die out of pragmatism...or worse, because he can't talk Leliana into ****ing him.
Edit: I mean, seriously. There are a lot of frat guys in college who will do anything that moves and yet if you check back two decades later, they will likely have stopped this behavior because it's been two decades. And did you see how when the HNF tried to proposition Duncan, he got all awkward and said it wouldn't be appropriate for him to go into her room, even just to talk?
We'll have to agree to disagree. I don't think most people change because of age - they change because of their experiences or because the consequences have become too great to continue said behavior. Duncan is still a single man with no family ties - he has no reason to change his behavior in that department. Most "frat guys" get married and have a family; so, they change their behavior. I would further disagree with you and say that most single people who were promiscuous in their youth and have never been in a committed relationship nor are looking for one, are likely still promiscuous 20 years later. Again, I could be wrong, but in my experience, that seems to be the case (in every case of the handful of people that I know who fit this bill actually).
With the Origin advance, I think he shoots it down because it is counter-productive to his goal of getting a recruit without pissing anyone off. He may be awkward because he wants to, but doesn't want to take the risk or because he was caught of guard by how forward the young recruit was being. Most people don't get more shy about advances with age - it is usually quite the opposite actually. On the other hand, it wouldn't surprise me if the intent in the game was to make him shy about such advances despite how he behaved in the books - there is not a lot of consistency between the books and the game.
Regarding the DR, ending the Blight is the main goal of a GW and one that must be ended at whatever costs. So, the OGB could be written off as just another cost of ending the blight even if the results unknown. If the DR works, it would be a new discovery for the GW order and could save not just a single life today, but more in the future. Duncan did not have a very positive outlook on the Order in his youth. Now, he may have come to terms with his fate and sees the necessity of the Order, but I think most people would still harbor some of those feelings and may seize an opportunity to avoid their destiny despite their better judgement.
So, I see a number of reasons including bedding Morrigan that I think Duncan would consider the DR. Are they smart, or logical, or even reasonable reasons? Absolutely not, but I think that they fit within his character.