Maria Caliban wrote...
ejoslin wrote...
Well, to have the ability to have sex with him, you have to have the romance open -- this is a game mechanic.
Right. Flirting = open romance. The problem is "I think you're cute" does not mean "I want a relationship with you."Also, if you tell Zevran you just want a one night stand, the romance ends.
No, it doesn't. I know this because it's *exactly what I did* and he decided we were in a relationship. Now, after he decides you two are an item, you can also tell him that you're not interested and it was a one time thing.
If it were Alistair or Leliana that did this, I'd understand because Alistair is an inexperienced romantic and Leliana is a bit crazy. But when a companion tells you that they've slept around and when their background and personality suggests they're a bit of a Lothario, then you can't blame a player for thinking that an offer of no-strings-attached sex is exactly that. When he turns around and suggests you've led him on, it's a surprise.
Is it in character? Is it a bug? Is it bad design? Maybe. But it's still a surprise.
I had the same issue with Leliana. Still a surprise - I had no idea that my dipping in Morrigan's swamp would bother her so much.
the romance is a game mechanic. Honestly, though, if you're someone's lover, there IS a relationship there which is most likely a little deeper than a straight friendship. Where exactly do you initiate a one-night-stand without the romance already being active? You can't. If you tell him it will never happen again after it happens (a real one night stand -- not a FWB situation), it ends the romance. but when inviting him? No. you can make it clear that you just want sex, but not that it's just a one-night stand. which is why he asks afterwards, "What now?"
I can't think of any dialog where he suggests you lead him on, though he ends up having to break up with the warden after a certain point if they don't return his feelings. Again, not a bad thing. It's an honest and painful moment -- he loves someone who doesn't love him back.
You CAN make it clear you want only FWB, and again, that's fine at the beginning of the relationship. but his feelings deveolop. This sounds more like you don't like that his feelings change and deepen, and you don't like that his romance also has him falling in love. That's ok. It's not for everyone.
It also is still not the issue i'm talking about. I was talking about people who couldn't be bothered to actually listen to the dialog, missed the fact that Zevran actually would confirm that something was starting, and then scream when they ended up in the tent even though Zevran asks if it can go further than a massage. And then an interview comes on that reassures the people who were screaming about it that it won't happen again.
Edit: People weren't understanding why that could be offensive and i was trying to explain why, not debate the merits of Zevran's relationship, which admittedly, is not for everyone.
Modifié par ejoslin, 03 décembre 2010 - 05:48 .





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