phyreblade74 wrote...
Arlias wrote...
phyreblade74 wrote...
Arlias wrote...
JackieDeex wrote...
Arlias wrote...
And I was happy to learn that he volunteered for the tattoos especially to free his family from slavery. It ended up being more of a hardship for his family than him despite him probably seeing it the other way around.
How was it a hardship for his family to be freed from slavery?
Well, imagine that your whole life you've been told what to do and as long as you do what you're told you can get by alright and then all of a sudden you have to start taking care of yourself.
You have to find a job, a place to live, since slaves don't get paid you wouldn't have expirience dealing with money...
Freedom could seem pretty terrifying! Like the slave girl you meet in his Act 2 quest, she was compleately baffled and had no clue what to do. She just asks, "Are you my master now?"
I can see how something like that might be scary at first, but eventually one would overcome that and move on. And realize... hey, I'm free. And not a slave. I would appreciate the sacrifice my brother had for me, rather than **** at him about it years later because I didn't want to put in the effort of taking care of myself.
You're thinking of this, as if you're suddenly free in a world like Kirkwall or Ferelden, where there IS something like opportunity for personal achievement and betterment. If you read up on Tevinter, or just listen to Fenris as he describes it during gameplay, there simply is no such chance in that country. There, rather, you're mired in an endless battle for supremacy, a total anarchical and chaotic game of "survival of the fittest".
Many elves in Tevinter actually sell themselves and/or their children into slavery. Otherwise, they starve. There's nothing else left for them to do. When you consider that sort of desperation as being so common a thing, it really does highlight what Fenris' sister was saying to him, when she said, "Freedom was no boon."
I recognize that it would be hard, I just don't see it as a bigger hardship than Fenris being tortured everyday. Besides, who says they have to stay in Tevinter? They could have migrated to Ferelden after the blight (especially since I freed the mages on my runthrough), or gone to the free marches. It's not like they were chained to Tevinter... which is a bonus of not being a slave. It wasn't a boon for her because she didn't take full advantage. There is ALWAYS opportunity. Fenris was a slave, yet he managed to escape to Kirkwall. They were free.
She would need monies to get out of Tevinter, as she needed money from Fenris to reach Kirkwall to meet him.
Chances are, her options were seriously limited, is all. And not only in terms of resources but in emotional and intellectual capacity to accept the difference between slavery and freedom. To her, the greatest thing to BE is a magister, and so that's what she aspires to be. Fenris' freeing her seriously compromises her chances to be anything more than a pitifully poor tailor in some small city in Tevinter. Freedom isn't some great thing, not to her. It's no boon, and Fenris' successes, such as they are, in that he's become a powerful fighter in control of his own destiny, is far better than what she's gotten. So she says so.
Seriously, the more I think on it, the more inclined I am to let Fenris kill her during my next PT, shrug. Self-serving witch of woman.
I HATES HER. When it gives me the option to either help her or not, my character is like: "Pfft, I'm not going to help you. I would be making your case to the brother you betrayed about to shove his fist into your heart!"

'Bout the other thing, agree to disagree I guess. I think it's true that she just didn't have the mental capacity to figure out how move on up in the world... Fenris even said he would have given her anything. If she had come without betraying him he would have helped her, and probably my Hawke would have tossed her a few gold, maybe hired her to work in his estate. Even though Fenris hated mages, she was his sister and he probably would have helped her out (providing she proved herself worth it by NOT betraying him!)
Anyways, if I was being a smart conniving **** I would have to see what Fenris could have done for me, and if it wasn't up to my standards I would have betrayed him to become a magister. But that's pretty heartless. Still, my point is that she obviously didn't end up having the mental capacity to figure out how to make it on her own, but I think that is in no way Fenris' fault, and I think it's really petty to blame him for her misfortune.
Maybe it's just from my own life experiences and things I've seen, but I'm a strong believer that ANYONE can overcome ANY hardship provided they are willing to put the work into doing so. I'm sure she could have put herself back into slavery if she really wanted to. She had options, and she acted like she had none... that's all I'm trying to say.
Modifié par Arlias, 18 mars 2011 - 08:05 .