Thief-of-Hearts wrote...
Personally it makes less sense to me to hang around someone you dont like or wants to argue with you on purpose just for ****s and giggles. But then again I never play a hawke who does that - although Izzy and Merril apparently think that's whatyou do if you go rival with them.
Just wanna clear something up here. Rivalry doesn't work like that.
In my rival relationship with Isabela there is no doubt that we like each other. A lot. We just have what you might call a stormy relationship. And my character is not not arguing for ****s and giggles. A played a character who speaks his mind, even when his views are unpopular or not what people want to hear. Someone who is antagonistic and takes what he wants, by force if neccessary. It seems natural that he would appreciate those same qualities in others. Which Isabela has in abundance.
Arguing doesn't always happen just for the fun of it. Some people like others who challenge them. It gives you incentive to improve. In my mind it's this realization that Merrill comes to in the later stages of her rivalry romance. That you want a strong person. Someone who stands up for herself. You constantly challenge her and you want her to challenge you. Thus, together, you will grow stronger.
Rivalry and aggresive/direct dialogue isn't just about dislike and being an ass. It would be really boring if it was. The relationships are just as deep and your character too, maybe even deeper, though that's just personal opinion, as i find the diplomatic options to be to much of a social chameleon out to please everybody and the sarcastic ones too much like a shield.