XX55XX wrote...
Really? I hated Kaidan. I thought he was more whiney than even Fenris. I can tolerate Fenris, but Kaidan? Damn I just hate the guy.
I don't want to have to defend Kaidan and Fenris in one thread so I'll just stick with Fenris for now. Generally I do not like people who brood, complain, and whine UNLESS they have a reason for it. For instance, Anders annoys me because I never really get the sense that he had all that much pain in his background. In fact a lot of the time he seems to bring the problems on himself (the constant escaping, the fighting of the templars at every turn). I guess if he gave me more examples of why he was so oppressed I'd understand better, but I never really got a sense that it was really as bad as he made it out to be.
While I got that the minute I met Fenris. He's covered with lyrium markings, has zero memories outside of mages torturing and humiliating him, and he's on the run from a bunch of mages trying to make him a slave again. It makes perfect sense that he'd be a little depressed after that but it doesn't last. Towards the end, if you get to know him, he will lighten up. Some examples of companion dialogue from Act 3:
Fenris: I was speaking with Donnic the other day...
Aveline: Since when do you talk with my husband?
Fenris: He... comes to the mansion once a week? We play diamondback.
Aveline: What? Why am I not invited to these games?
Fenris: He says you get angry when you lose.
Aveline: I do not! All right, perhaps I do. Still, that's no reason not to tell me.
Fenris: He's a good man, Aveline. I enjoy his visits.
Aveline: Fine, fine. Have your "man time," then.
Varric: You know you still owe me five sovereigns, elf.
Fenris: I'm good for it.
Varric: Meaning you'll borrow it from Hawke, probably.
Varric: Coming to the Hanged Man for Wicked Grace later?
Fenris: Never miss it.
And refuses to turn in mages in the party because he is loyal to Hawke:
Sebastian: It's our duty to tell the templars.
Fenris: Then why haven't you done it?
Sebastian: I guess I was hoping they'd come to it on their own.
Fenris: And then you wouldn't have to betray Hawke's friends, right?
Sebastian: That's not reason enough to allow a maleficar to walk free.
Sebastian: Which of us should do it? Shall we draw lots?
Fenris: Uh-uh. You want to turn them in, you work it out with Hawke.
The point is, he only had bad experiences with mages before and that tainted his view, but once he meets a different world, particularly if Hawke is a mage, he isn't as broody, anti mage, and angry all the time. To the point that even if you are at decent enough friendship with him or full rivalry, he will support the mages with you. He'll never completely change his views because of what he's seen, but he will become more understanding and tolerant of mages with help from Hawke.