Wow, still have decided this topic has been beaten to death, eh?
fighterchicks wrote...
I think that he appeals to a lot of people because he's pretty. People are willing to overlook a lot of things, silly or otherwise, just because a character is good looking. It might be more of a people see what they want to see than he's written a bit ambiguous/open to interpretation.
Well, for whatever anecdotal evidence is worth (which isn't a lot), I didn't really think he was 'pretty' at first. I didn't pore over the pre-release information or have any idea who, if anyone, I would romance in DA2. Going into DA:O I had expected myself to like Zevran best and ended up getting blindsided by Alistair. Some of the descriptions actually made me feel muddled about the companions - from Aveline's blurb I genuinely had no idea if I would love her, hate her, or be disinterested. (I love her, in the end.) Fenris I though, well, ok, he looks kinda...weird, and his outfit is...weird, I'll see what he's like in game. Anders I hoped would be more or less like he was in Awakenings, though perhaps a bit more purposeful (be careful what you wish for...)
When I started playing, I still didn't know what to make of Fenris. he drove me nuts at first because he was so damn prickly, and disagreed with some of my positions, sometimes politely, sometimes less so. But as the game progressed and Anders became increasingly creepy to me, Fenris grew on me. Sure, sometimes he's a pain in the ass, but I guess I can see where he's coming from.
So sure, at my current stage of 'played the game, not likely to replay it, enjoyed the romance albeit less so than Alistair's', I'm not going to say he's hard on the eyes or anything, particularly when he makes puppy-eyes face. But I'm not going to say that's all there is to him, or deny he has any flaws (from an in-character perspective or an out-of-character one). For that matter, Anders is also quite good-looking, but that doesn't stop me wanting to shake him a little (ok maybe a lot) or slap him upside that handsome head of his.
So I think it is both reductive and dismissive (and a little presumptuous and condescending, to be honest) to say that the people are posting anything positive in this thread are only doing so "because he's pretty."
I don't know. I don't mind discussion of any of the characters but I do feel like the thread is just talking in circles now. Some people like Fenris, some don't - is there any likelihood of reaching any kind of a consensus, or changing anybody's mind, or are people just looking for an argument, basically? Short of any more information coming out from Bioware either through comments or game content I don't see that anything's going to be resolved here or that keeping on this circular discussion will be productive. And some of the comments over the last few days have been either subtly or overtly hostile, which is sad to see. But I'm not trying to shut the thread down for anybody else, so if you guys wanna keep giving each other verbal side-eye, carry on. I was mainly still hanging out here for the art and the banter but I guess I'll bow out now that's it's pretty much just speculative antagonism. So one less fangirl here now, I guess that counts as a win.
Cya for DA3 folks.