dangereusegirl wrote...
Considering I just got into Doctor Who, Gnas makes me all kinds of happy 
Back to Fenris tho, I really enjoy looking at people's different opinion on him. It allows me to think about what makes me really like him as a character.
And Maker knows this has probably been addressed before in all of these pages, but how does your Hawke deal and/or rationalize with the three year gap during the Fenris romance?
All of my Hawkes (I say all because I have yet to do a playthrough where I don't romance Fenris XD) end up living by the quote 'if you love something, set it free.' They know that if there is any chance of a lasting relationship with Fenris, they have to let him work through his issues. I am tempted to have my mage!Hawke try and flirt with Anders, and have the romance scene pop up, just for the RP purposes of her realizing how much she cares for Fenris, and tell Anders to get out. Or maybe I'm just evil like that 
Oh God, I love yakking about my Hawke, brace yourselves.
I play an aggressive F!Hawke. I've alway been of the opinion that you haven't really played until you've played aggressive, because you get some of the coolest dialogue ("You may not wear chains anymore, but you're not free!" "YOU KNOW NOTHING OF BEING A SLAVE!" /belligerentsexualtension+awesomelinedelivery). One of my favorite lines is just after All That Remains and Gamlen comes out and says something like "I'm not like you, I can't shove my feelings into a corner and pretend they don't exist!" I always felt like that was a really good summation of how Aggressive!Hawke opperates when it comes to feelings he/she is afraid to deal with.
I figure that after That Night, my Hawke is really broken up over it, but as always she shoves it into the corner and stubbornly continues on like nothing's wrong. Never confronts the feelings, making it pretty much impossible for her to move on and be happy. She's not good at happy, especially when she can't be with the guy she won't admit she loves. I mean, I'm fairly certain Fenris wasn't trying to move on with anyone else or making trips to the Blooming Rose over those three years. I think he was sitting at home brooding, as per usual, with a generous dollop of pining. And a lot of wine. My Hawke just does the Hawke equivalent of this: venting her frustrations by kicking ass and ****ing at people. For three years.
They sort of deserve each other, the idiots. <3
tl;dr: My Hawke is a stupid ****. This whole Fenris situation could have been avoided if she had a sassy gay friend.