dangereusegirl wrote...
Oh god, Harry/Draco
-shudders-
I'm not a Fenders shipper, personally, so I'm not the best person to say what people look for in those two getting together. Frankly, it seems so out of character for Fenris, who rags on those who are the worst of mages (anders-abomination, merrill-blood mage), to suddenly want one of them. It just doesn't compute with my almost-twenty year old brain. Like you point out, Fleshdress, maybe its the love/hate thing. Perhaps people misinterpret their passionate stances on a controversial subject as being suppressed sexual tension. I dunno.
One reason Fenders doesn't work with me, and I apologize if I step on a few toes here, is because I don't think of Fenris as being bisexual. I know all of the LIs, barring Seb, are availble for male and female Hawke, but Fenris is one that I don't see being with m!Hawke. Ever. I will never have a playthrough where m!Hawke ends up with him. It just doesn't work for me. Let him go be happy with Isabela, if I don't take her up on her offer. May they find happiness together.
Okay, on second thought, I take that back. There is one slash pairing with Fenris I can see working, but in the interest of staying on track, I'll save it until later.
Anders, on the other hand, I do see as being a viable option.I blame that on the numerous Nathaniel/Anders fics I read before DA2 came out. And the fact that Anders even addresses it in game with a male Hawke makes me believe in it more. Does Fenris ever address it with Hawke? I don't remember seeing anything about that. I should go look it up later on youtube to see if anyone posts a vid.
In my mind, the only way Fenders could ever be viable, is if they met before Anders allowed Justice to possess him, and before Fenris got his markings. So we're talking way back and most likely in Tevinter. But since I don't think Anders actually ever made it to Tevinter before, it still wouldn't work.
That's my opinion anyway. Which I think is sort of the point. Perception is the big thing here. Just because I don't see Fenders working, doesn't mean someone else doesn't. In fact, the fact that there are fics out there just proves that people do see it working.
That's all I have to say for right now. It's almost four in the morning and I need to get some sleep. I'll come back after awhile and clarify my post if need be.
Night everyone!
You may not see Fenris as bisexual, but he IS bisexual. Or, you could say, Hawke-sexual. Then again, I'm actually the opposite. The thought of Fenris with a girl is so wrong to me, like, it doesn't make any sense in my head. Fenris is so perfect with m!Hawke, imo, but with f!Hawke it just seems... urgh, I dunno how to explain it. I don't think I could personally ever romance Fenris with Lady Hawke though. Even if both Hawkes are essentially the same person sans what's between their legs, Fenris resonates far more with m!Hawke to me.
Then again, in general I prefer gay romances because they're more interesting to me. And whenever I play Lady Hawke, I have to romance Isabela just because. But with every other LI I see them as equally into fem or m!Hawke, just not Fenris for whatever reason.
I like Fenders, but I agree that in game you really have to stretch to see it. I like messed up, love/hate relationships. Though unfortunately, Anders and Fenris really kick on the hate side, but I am not adverse to throwing in some angsty sexual attraction there. I mean, they have sooo much in common. They both glow, for one. Seems like enough of a basis for a relationship to me. Plus I like theories about sexy lyrium attraction. Nothing fluffy or domestic though, of course. But I don't think there's anything wrong with reading between lines and creating relationships as long as you don't blatantly disregard canon.