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kemz19691 wrote...

gingergen wrote...

Yes, that's right! Alistair ftw! I got DA2 a while ago, but didn't get into it until recently, for whatever reason.

I didn't notice that the other companions get a new look (the only other one I've romanced was Anders) -- that does actually help. He's so... branded. And the game (I haven't quite finished this play through but nothing so far) doesn't actually give you a chance to talk about it.

I agree that Fen does go off and do other things in his own time - but not until later. He looks for his sister during the 3 years post act 2, and he mentions playing cards with Donnic but not until act 3.

However, I concede that my psuedo-master statement is controversial. :) I don't mean to say "This is so" just "This is something that I've been thinking about." It never occurred to me until I was writing this fic.

For *ahem* research purposes, I watched the post-Hadriana cutscene a bazillion times, and I couldn't help but notice that (in the friendmance - might be different in rivalmance?) Fenris grabs Hawke, but then Hawke does the kissing and the wall-slamming. And then as he's leaving he says "this is too fast" and I went... hmm, she didn't really give him a chance to say no, did she? He was emotionally if not actually a virgin, and they went straight from first kiss to wall-slamming and sexing. Not that he *couldn't* have stopped her. I'm just glad that *my* first time didn't have that kind of dynamic, you know? I was just thinking it can be hard to say no to someone you love, and it's not like he's had a lot of practice. Which is why he has no middle "hey, I like you, but can we slow down" option -- only yes or "run away".

Anyway, yes. Happy to hear thoughts and counter arguments! I was just curious if anyone else had similar thoughts.


I agree with your views on this. 

Fenris is a runaway slave trying to start some form of new life in Kirkwall while awaiting a (final) confrontation with Danarius. He's not aggressive, is he? Conditioning from slavery.  When we first meet Fenris during his recruitment, he tells Hawke/Companions that Danarius kept him 'caged like a Qunari mage" to mock their customs.  We learn later after his battle with Hadrianna, that he wasn't a complete "dead soul" (e.g., he wanted to defend himself against Hadrianna's torments but he couldn't because of her station) - that he wasn't as broken as we thought. 

Problem is - "his chains are broken but he's not really free".  He's been so conditioned, he doesn't know how to make decisions for himself.  Running away from Danarius was really the only decision Fenris has made for himself. However, we learn that he "thinks" about what to do with his life. Problem is, he asks Hawke to help him make decisions.  I think he asks Hawke because he trusts her/him, something he probably wasn't used to doing. He mentions that in one of their conversations - that he didn't allow anyone close b/c of his body's memory of pain, but also becuase he couldn't really trust anyone.  If betrayed or if he choses to fight for Templars vs. Hawke, he may mention that he shouldn't let anyone close, which is the first law of survival.

To quote Fenris, that he is capable of feeling anything is something.  He is an amazing character in the game and I find it difficult to ignore his need. This is one of the only characters in the game (imo) that we see actually evolve.  Fenris speaks his mind boldy, but is often sensitive to how his words affects others particuarly Hawke.  He is terribly damaged. But I think there's more to Fenris as alluded to by Verania. I think pre-ritual, Fenris was ambitious, ruthless and status-conscience.  *Spoiler* Although he helped to free his family, I think he would have competed even without the boon.

I don't like the assumptions we're asked to make if Hawke doesn't romance Fenris - that is, he will hook up with Isabela. I think Bioware should have assigned Fenris to Varric for business training - they could have gone into business together, Fenris would work through some of his trust issues and put closure to his past. I would have hoped Fenris would re-connect with his people - the Elvhen, OR that he would take Sebastian up on the offer to relocate to Starkhaven.  Putting Fenris with Isabela for sex cheapens his character and his import to the story. At least Bioware didn't have Fenris selling services at the Blooming Rose :?

Fenris is one of the more complex characters - like Sebastian (another character I think people miss on) or Merrill, and I think the developers mitigated his role in Act 3 too much.  In other words, after he frees himself, the developers don't know what to do with him.

I, too, am writing some fanfiction. Would you link your work? ^_^



Thats a good question on FEnris looking to Hawke for answers akin to a mentor status or a child seeking our a parent for guidance. Well in a way he is probably as emotional as a teenager while his mental level is a great thinking philospher.

And yes that would of been better if he had gone into buisness with Varric making a name for himself. Granted I never saw the isabella angle as nothing more than a sex relationship that turns into something more and depp, at its core all it was is sex.
Damn now I am just upset about thinking that possiblity cause even if you dont romance him its still the guidance part but ultimately Fenris taking his own iniatives. that wont revolve around drinking, brooding, hatin on mages.

Ahhh back to work.:unsure:

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gingergen wrote...

This is something I've been grappling with in a fic I've been writing (my first ever, *ulp*). I love me some Fenris, and I am friendmancing the crap out of him, but honestly, his relationship with Hawke isn't very healthy, is it?  Fenris was a slave, and then he escaped and did his own thing (even if that was mostly running), and then he met Hawke and now he's... following her/him around. And depending on how you play that... he's sort of made Hawke his new master, in a way. 


In a way, yes, you could see it this way, that Hawke is  Fenris' new master. But I don't really agree on your interpretation of that. Fenris is bound to Hawke, yes. Bound by the feeling he owes Hawke because he has agreed to help him fight Danarius in act 1 and later helps him to fight Hadriana. And, when romanced, he is bound to Hawke by his own feelings for him/her. That is the way he does not fully understand himself and part of why he runs away after their night together.
I think Fenris himself mostly perceives it as being bound to Hawke in the beginning of the romance, and that scares him. But in the end, he realizes it is different, that what he is feeling for Hawke is love. And, well, in a certain way everyone is a slave of love. Feelings like that are hard to fight. Anyway, when Fenris acknowledges that for himself, and when Hawke admits he/she is still in love with Fenris as well, it turns out to be an equal relationship. Hawke could as much be seen as a slave of Fenris and his/her feelings for him as the other way around. After all Hawke waits for three years for Fenris to fianlly open up again and get back. 

Ehrm... anyhow, I don't see their relationship as unhealthy, no. I think it is very good for Fenris to have someone who truly cares about him. Of courses the relationship is unconventional and uncommon, but in a game like DA you don't have a "normal" romance, and still it is not really twisted and unhealthy. 
I also don't think Fenris actually perceives Hawke as his new master, not in the dominating, free will-robbing way Danarius was his master. There is a huge difference between the two, and seeing Hawke like that is selling Hawke short, in my opinion. 

As for Fenris not having hobbies: I think it's difficult for him to decide what to do with his free time. He has never had free time after all. He just needs some time to develop a more normal life, and as long as Danarius is alive and hunters could show up to capture him at any moment, he doesn't really dare to do so.
But he finds a hobby after some time. Didn't Varric ask him what he does all day and didn't Fenris say he practices his dance routines?:lol:

And about the love tokens Fenris carries: it is possible to come up with different meanings for them. In my fic (lol, all fic writers here. I don't mean to advertise, just most of my inspiration for discussions like these comes from what I make up for my story) the red band around Fenris' wrist comes from the (by then torn, hehe) robes Hawke wore when they kissed. It doesn't only function as a reminder of their night together, but also of how vulnerable (mage, obviously) Hawke is if an enemy gets into melee range of him when he only wears those thin robes. Those robes serve little protection against a steel blade. So Fenris lets the red sash remind him of how he should watch Hawke's back, fight at his side in battle and defend him against said steel. And, as I said, as a reminder of their night.
As for the Amell crest, that is more of a clear hint towards Hawke. In my (fic) eyes, to also let Hawke know Fenris will not let him/her down in battle, but fight at his side. Even though he runs away after their night, he wants to let Hawke - and even the rest of the world, because he openly wears Hawke's family symbol and people could recognize that - know he will not betray him in battle. If Hawke needs him in that way, he will be there.
I think the additional meaning to the crest is that Fenris admits the "I am yours" thing. The crest could be seen as a sign of ownership, but it's not meant in that literal way of master-slave, of Fenris being Hawke's property. It already symbolizes that deeper way they are connected, by love, even though Fenris doesn't truly understands himself at that time how exactly.

Ahem. I think that was all. End of wall of text.:whistle:


Edit: oh, we're on the next page already! A Fenris that fits the current topic:

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renjility wrote...

gingergen wrote...
*snip*


*snip*


Edit: oh, we're on the next page already! A Fenris that fits the current topic:

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Well never before have I been happier to do an escorche drawing. Muscle tone and contour lining! *wolf whistles and bangs head with skillet pan*

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motomotogirl wrote...

I mean it was that or Kill Bill for fighting style, but it feels weird seeing Fenris as 'the bride'.:ph34r:


He's my Hawke's "bride" :wub:

*gets bricked* :devil:

Okay, movie, let's see ... Cinderella :devil:


LOL! You are so rotten! I can't see him wearing the glass slippers. :blink:

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kemz19691 wrote...

I don't like the assumptions we're asked to make if Hawke doesn't romance Fenris - that is, he will hook up with Isabela. I think Bioware should have assigned Fenris to Varric for business training - they could have gone into business together, Fenris would work through some of his trust issues and put closure to his past. I would have hoped Fenris would re-connect with his people - the Elvhen, OR that he would take Sebastian up on the offer to relocate to Starkhaven.  Putting Fenris with Isabela for sex cheapens his character and his import to the story. At least Bioware didn't have Fenris selling services at the Blooming Rose :?


I TOTALLY agree with you on this, and I get so irritated when people accuse me of hating the Fenris x Isabela romance (that is FORCED upon us) because I romance Fenris with a M!Hawke.  Trust me, I would be JUST as pissed if Fenris entered into a purely sexual relationship with Varric, Anders, or Sebastian.  It just is NOT his MO.  I don't think he could ever fall for someone like Isabela (or Anders, for that matter).  And I don't think he would have frequent casual sex with someone either.  I'm so tired of the "Oh, he's a man, he has needs" argument.  He's hardly your average red-blooded male, is he?  He's a walking definition of PTSD and possible former rape victim.  

Maybe I am just interpreting his character wrong.  But it frustrates me that I'm not ALLOWED to interpret him in such a way because if my Hawke does not romance him, he turns into this completely different person than how I see him when he's in a romance with my Hawke.  It just isn't fair that they thrust that on us, whether we like it or not, and it's why if I don't romance Fenris, I don't even bother to recruit him.  I can't even walk around with a romanced Fenris and Isabela in my party for long because some of the banter still triggers.  It's annoying.

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aldien wrote...

LOL! You are so rotten! I can't see him wearing the glass slippers. :blink:


I see him trying them on, trying to walk, and falling over.  Then giving Hawke a murderous look for making him try on GLASS SLIPPERS of all things.  The things he does to satisfy Hawke's bizarre bedroom fantasies...

*double post* :bandit:

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motomotogirl wrote...

kemz19691 wrote...

I don't like the assumptions we're asked to make if Hawke doesn't romance Fenris - that is, he will hook up with Isabela. I think Bioware should have assigned Fenris to Varric for business training - they could have gone into business together, Fenris would work through some of his trust issues and put closure to his past. I would have hoped Fenris would re-connect with his people - the Elvhen, OR that he would take Sebastian up on the offer to relocate to Starkhaven.  Putting Fenris with Isabela for sex cheapens his character and his import to the story. At least Bioware didn't have Fenris selling services at the Blooming Rose :?


I TOTALLY agree with you on this, and I get so irritated when people accuse me of hating the Fenris x Isabela romance (that is FORCED upon us) because I romance Fenris with a M!Hawke.  Trust me, I would be JUST as pissed if Fenris entered into a purely sexual relationship with Varric, Anders, or Sebastian.  It just is NOT his MO.  I don't think he could ever fall for someone like Isabela (or Anders, for that matter).  And I don't think he would have frequent casual sex with someone either.  I'm so tired of the "Oh, he's a man, he has needs" argument.  He's hardly your average red-blooded male, is he?  He's a walking definition of PTSD and possible former rape victim.  

Maybe I am just interpreting his character wrong.  But it frustrates me that I'm not ALLOWED to interpret him in such a way because if my Hawke does not romance him, he turns into this completely different person than how I see him when he's in a romance with my Hawke.  It just isn't fair that they thrust that on us, whether we like it or not, and it's why if I don't romance Fenris, I don't even bother to recruit him.  I can't even walk around with a romanced Fenris and Isabela in my party for long because some of the banter still triggers.  It's annoying.


I don't hate Fenabela, and I don't understand how a casual relationship with her cheapens his character. It's not my OTP, however. I am a Fenris/AnyHawke shipper first and foremost. Regardless, I have a sudden urge to have my say.

Just because Fenris' romance is different from his relationship with Isabela doesn't mean that that it's out-of-character or even cheap, deliberate sexploitation. You don't act the exact same to every person you come across, do you? There are many differences between his relationship with Hawke and his relationship with Isabela.

First things first, it is a casual, open relationship. There are no strings attached, as far as we can tell. There is no emotional intimacy that makes Fenris feel as awkward as he is with Hawke. It helps that Isabela is more of an equal in comparison to Hawke, who's always been their leader, the hero, the Champion. 

Even if Fenris and Isabela remain friends, they are far more relaxed with each other than they are with Hawke, as Fenris is more or less at ease with Isabela's flirty nature, and they exchange rather light-hearted banter in comparison to, say, Fenris' banter with Aveline (even though they are also on good terms). 

The problem that Fenris has with Hawke (the whole I'm leaving you it's not you it's my past thing) that he does not have with Isabela, however, is because his relationship with Hawke has something that he does not have with Isabela - a deep, intimate, emotional connection. Isabela is more or less a Friend with Benefits.

And another thing, just because Fenris was sexually abused and currently recovering from PTSD and slave mentality doesn't mean he can't enjoy sex on its' own terms. It's intimacy that sexual abuse survivors have trouble with the most, not sex itself.

We don't witness a Fenabela scene outside of banter, but it's not out of character to imagine Isabela showing Fenris how to enjoy sex without attachments or commitments. Sex is enjoyable in itself, you don't have to be a **** or male to enjoy it, and implying that Fenris is being a **** because of this is... confusing. And no, I am not saying either of you are, but I've seen this come up in the arguments to mention it and bug me.

(On a random note, I usually hear the "You're just a Jealous Fangirl" argument rather than the "You just don't like it because you're a Fenris/MHawke shipper" argument. Completely random and unrelated, I know.)

Oh, and the relationship isn't forced upon you as much as it is two virtual characters choosing to be with each other without some weird "Friends with Benefits" sidequest. Maybe we'll get one in DA3? :D

</end ramble>

And now, to retreat back to lurk-land. *poof!*

Modifié par Meeszy Alexy, 07 février 2012 - 06:06 .


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Which ever option I choose I'm not completely happy with, you either allow Fenris to kill his sister or intervene in a icky way.

My problem with the first is that this is Act 3 Hawke, someone who has, one way or another, lost the family that's been the focal point of their lifes so stepping back and letting Fenris kill his family feels wrong character wise. While on the other hand it's a harsh lesson of freedom and consequence Fenris needs to learn. I'm just not sure if this is the way to learn it.

The problem with the second is that Verania looks to the human and possibly the human mage to control Fenris which is made worse by Fenris actually stopping if Hawke tells him to. This is why I like Varric in the group because he throws in his pov and it's a bit less like Hawke ordering Fenris around.

Verania is very much the Goldanna of DA2, if you tilt your head and squint you can kind of see where she's coming from but that still doesn't make her a good or sympathetic person.

As far as the ribbon and shield go while there's certainly a touch of ownership (it's the shield more than the ribbon imo) it can also be seen as Fenris silently telling Hawk that he cares but just can't handle a relationship.

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Thanks for the welcome Tashash!

Yay, discussions! Okay, I kept notes as I went and responded in the order I saw the posts...

kemz19691 -- yes! It's the conditioning thing. Clearly, there is a person inside Fenris who has desires and ambitions, but he's not used to letting that person out, and the process must be scary. It would be SO much easier to find someone whose values you could accept (or who you respect in other ways, in the case of rivalry) and sort of latch on to them. You COULD say, in a way, that Hawke acts a bit like training wheels for Fenris... and if you look at it that way, maybe it isn't that unhealthy after all. 

Interesting to hear what he says at the end if he chooses the opposite side from you -- I played through before without romancing Fenris, but I had him at full rivalry so I was able to get him to join me supporting the mages by comparing it to slavery.

I haven't published anything yet, but I'll be happy to share the link when I do! I tend to bounce around a lot when I write, so I'm trying to get the whole thing blocked out before I start putting the first chapters out there.

Ghost_Nappa -- your point about Hawke acting as a mentor is a little related to what I was just thinking above about the training wheels. A good point.

(Though I will say my Hawke as I have played and written her isn't really what I'd call mature enough to be a good mentor... at least not in act I.) :) (Snarky personality ftw!)

renjility -- I totally see your points. I kind of like my theory, and I'm sticking with it for now, but yay for a game that leaves so much room for interpretation, right? Also, damn. That is one gorgeous picture you posted.

Ser Bard -- Verania is *totally* the Goldana of DA2. Love that observation. But yes, it's the fact that she turns to the human to tell Fenris what to do that skeeves me out there, and makes me more likely to play a Hawke that reacts, "Hey, it's not for ME to tell him what to do." Though I agree having Varric there does help change the dynamic.


GIVEN all this discussion, I'm starting to think the big turning point for Fenris is actually taking the initiative to search out his sister, without Hawke's help (or "approval"). This is actually super helpful for me, because I'm having some issues with the plotting for act 3. Thank you all!

Modifié par gingergen, 07 février 2012 - 08:01 .


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gingergen wrote...

Ser Bard -- Verania is *totally* the Goldana of DA2. Love that observation. But yes, it's the fact that she turns to the human to tell Fenris what to do that skeeves me out there, and makes me more likely to play a Hawke that reacts, "Hey, it's not for ME to tell him what to do." Though I agree having Varric there does help change the dynamic.


Oh, I take that scene to mean ... like, she looks to Hawke because she knows they're involved and it's clear that Hawke has strong influence with Fenris.  If anyone can convince her crazy glowy bro (hey, that rhymes!) to not kill her, it's that bad ass looking dude/girl who keeps flashing him little adoring looks.

Er, uh, haha, keep in mind I've never played Alone while not in a romance with the Fenbear :lol:

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Hi, Meezy. I can appreciate your view on this.  I think we all agree - there is no superficiality with Fenris. He's open, raw and emotional because of the trauma as a slave, (unexpressed but real) fear of Danarius/repeated slaver pursuits/possible recapture, anger towards the institution of slavery in Tevinter and blood magic, and uncertainty about what to do NOW.  Given that Fenris is so complex, it's hard to see him so FLIPPANT about sex. Not when he suffers flashbacks during sex.

Remember the dialogues with Hawke about what happened that night they made love?  Fenris has said many times that the ritual which gave him those markings created extraordinary pain that still lingers. This is why he hasn't allowed anyone "close" physically.  People think that it's only an emotional pain he feels, but that's wrong. He says it's physical (twice, during Acts II and III). Do you remember it? 

Hawke: "I need to understand why you left",
Fenris: "The pain, the memories..."

Overriding the physical pain are the flashbacks he suffers during sex.  I believe that this ghost pain is just associated memories of pain unlocked when he's vulnerable and touched.  These memories unlock other memories from his past - such as voices, experiences, visions, etc.  We're led to believe that Fenris doesn't actually suffer a physical pain response to the touching, just ghost pain or a panoply (isn't that a word?) of pain memories associated with his skin.  This is classic PTSD - someone hears a word, a sound, a song, a conversation, or has an otherwise mundane experience that unlocks a traumatic memory or series of memories that overwhelms the sufferer and often re-traumatizes them.  These are the flashbacks PTSD sufferers have.  For Fenris, they're associated with touching his skin while vulnerable - e.g., unexpected touching, intimacy, etc.  Remember, he was probably tied down or chained (vulnerable/helpless) while lyrium was injected under his skin (pain, pain, pain).

I find it interesting that people make a distinction between "sex without emotional attachment" and lovemaking.  Not to get graphic, but there really isn't that much of a difference.  The same physical laws apply and the same results are anticipated.  It is gratifying in any case, and that's why the exchange between an unromanced Fenrish + Isabela is phony.

Someone as deeply isolated as Fenris with severe trust issues suffering flashbacks during sex so much so he doesn't want to have sex with her/him anymore - could not have an open, fulfilling and 'gratifying' intimate with anyone - Hawke, Isabela , et al.

Fenris doesn't want to have sex.  He is unable to block the memory flashbacks and it overwhelms him.
Fenris: "I can't. I just can't."

See -- after they finished with Fenris' arc as a character, they didn't know what to do with him so they gave him a "happy ending".  Even in fantasies, that doesn't meet our base expectations for such a character.  I bet there were arguments about this among story/character developers - but time is always of the essence and to save it, they gave him some kind of closure.

Remember, Fenris is not the average guy. His only memories are of abuse, excrutiating pain, humilation, torment, and probably forced sexual associations (which, in and of itself, would harbor painful memories enough to prevent healthy intimacy for a lifetime).  I think Fenris, of above all, desires safety.  This is why I think he prefers to be alone so much, why he likes company in groups, and why he never opened up to anyone about his past EXCEPT Hawke.  Hawke is is protecting Fenris from recapture, from Danarius.  Hawke has proven himself/herself to be a friend, something Fenris has probably never had.

It's really difficult for gamers who "emotionally attach" themselves to Fenris to understand the superficial treatment of this character after Danarius dies. However, it's always good to remind ourselves that he's just a work of fiction.

B)

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kemz19691 wrote...


Hi, Meezy. I can appreciate your view on this.  I think we all agree - there is no superficiality with Fenris. He's open, raw and emotional because of the trauma as a slave, (unexpressed but real) fear of Danarius and a recapture, anger towards slavery and blood magic, and uncertainty about what to do NOW.  Given that Fenris is so complex, it's hard to see him so FLIPPANT about sex. Not when he suffers flashbacks during sex.

Remember the dialogues with Hawke about what happened that night they made love?  Fenris has said many times that the ritual that gave him those markings created extraordinary pain that still lingers. This is why he hasn't allowed anyone "close" physically.  People think that it's only an emotional pain he feels, but that's wrong. He says it physical (twice, during Acts II and III). Do you remember it? 

Hawke: "I need to understand why you left",
Fenris: "The pain, the memories..."

Overriding the physical pain are the flashbacks he suffers during sex.  I believe that his ghost pains are just memories of pain unlocked when he's touched and vulnerable - these memories unlock other memories such as the voices, experiences and visions from his past.  We're led to believe Fenris doesn't actually suffer a pain response to the touching, just a ghost pain or panoply (isn't that a word?) of pain memories associated with his skin.  It is classic PTSD - someone hears a word, a sound, a song, a conversation, or a otherwise mundane experience that unlocks a memory. These are the flashbacks PTSD sufferers have.  For Fenris, they're associated with touching his skin which vulnerable - e.g., unexpected touching, intimacy, etc. 

I find it interesting that people make a distinction between "sex without emotional attachment" and lovemaking.  Not to get graphic, but there really isn't that much of a difference.  The same physical laws apply, and the same results are anticipated.  It is gratifying in any case, and that's why the exchange between an unromanced Fenrish + Isabela is phony.

Someone as deeply isolated as Fenris with severe trust issues who suffers flashbacks during sex so much so he doesn't want to have sex with her/him anymore - could not have an open, fulfilling and 'gratifying' intimate with anyone - Hawke, Isabela , et al.

Fenris doesn't want to have sex.  He is unable to block the memory flashbacks and it overwhelms him.
Fenris: "I can't. I just can't."

See -- after they finished with Fenris' arc as a character, they didn't know what to do with him so they gave him a "happy ending".  Even in fantasies, that doesn't meet our base expectations for such a character.  I bet there were arguments about this among story/character developers - but time is always of the essence and to save it, they gave him some kind of closure.

Remember, Fenris is not the average guy. His only memories are of abuse, excrutiating pain, humilation, torment, and probably forced sexual associations (which, in and of itself, would harbor painful memories enough to prevent healthy intimacy for a lifetime).  I think Fenris, of above all, desires safety.  This is why I think he prefers to be alone so much, why he likes company in groups, and why he never opened up to anyone about his past EXCEPT Hawke.  Hawke is is protecting Fenris from recapture, from Danarius.  Hawke has proven himself/herself to be a friend, something Fenris has probably never had.

It's really difficult for gamers who "emotionally attach" themselves to Fenris to understand the superficial treatment of this character after Danarius dies. However, it's always good to remind ourselves that he's just a work of fiction.

B)








^this sums it up pretty well, thank you.

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One more thing.... I don't believe Fenris was so "truthful" in his response to Hawke's "was it that bad?" when he said "It was more than I could have dreamed", or something like that.

He was so traumatized by the flashbacks that he didn't want to have sex with her/him anymore. If it was more than you could have dreamed - then why don't you want to keep doing it, Fenris??

Answer: "It's too much. It's too painful. I can't. I just ...can't."

So the pleasure is outweighed by all that pain. Which means, it was a horrible experience for him.

Poor Fenris. But his ending the intimacy with Hawke is as close to real as you can get for someone so traumatized. I give Bioware exceptional marks on this treatment :unsure: though I hate they dropped the ball after they "finished with his arc":?:?.

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MEEEEEEEZZZZZZZYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! *tackleglomphs*

It's so good to see you here in the Fenris thread! *huggles*

I have to admit that I'm actually happy that Fenris 'hook's up' or whatever with Isabela if he isn't with Hawke. Sure, it isn't a great, heartwrenching romance - but that dosen't make it bad does it?

For all her frivolity Isabela is no stranger to hardship or pain (her own mother sold her!) and I think that she can really help Fenris with his issues, having a sort of understanding of how he feels.

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Tashash wrote...


I have to admit that I'm actually happy that Fenris 'hook's up' or whatever with Isabela if he isn't with Hawke. Sure, it isn't a great, heartwrenching romance - but that dosen't make it bad does it?

For all her frivolity Isabela is no stranger to hardship or pain (her own mother sold her!) and I think that she can really help Fenris with his issues, having a sort of understanding of how he feels.

I agree. It's nice to see him with someone else if Hawke passes him up/moves on. Though I, personally, don't see Fenris and Isabela as ever falling in love, I do see them as having this comfortable, understanding, "partners in crime" sort of relationship. Their banters make it seem so. Image IPB 

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 I think what Bioware was mainly trying to do with the whole Fenabel thing was to try and implement a romance into the companions to add to the whole 'realism' thing, which isn't really that bad, although I have to agree Fenris doesn't really suit Isabela.... but then again he wouldn't suit Merril or Anders either would he? 
Speaking of Merril though, it would be incredibly interesting to see how a romance between them would carry out, whereas I don't think it would be humanly possible for Anders and Fenris to be together 0.o

Modifié par Night Dreams, 08 février 2012 - 07:22 .


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Oh I like this debate! I was scared away by Moto's strange glass slipper fantasy. :P

Fenris: *smash* I refuse to wear these Hawke!

Hawke: But Fenris...

Fenris: Where's the gourd? I'm going home.


This is what it says on the Wiki regarding Fenris being touched:

The lyrium burned into his body causes him pain, making him guarded
against physical contact; however, it is more of an aversion to them
being touched rather than physical pain.[1]

I love me some double talk!


Anywho, but, for me, that doesn't come across in the game. I'm guessing when he says: The pain...etc that he means the emotional pain caused by flashbacks not physical pain. He also states several times that he enjoyed Hawke's touch. He remembers it like yesterday or something corny like that. It isn't very clear in the game. But... *ahem* I do know one thing. If a man found being touched painful it would definitely be hard (no pun intended) for him to perform, if you get my meaning. So... I find it hard to believe it is physical pain that he experiences, but it's not very clear cut in the game.

I'll probably get beaten up for this next statement but oh well.

As far as Isabela and Fenris go, I've never let them get together in ACT III. I am *sniffles* a Fenris good time girl. There I said it. I do know what is said between them. I think they are two people who have worth and trust issues to some degree. Fenris moreso than Isabela. I do find it hard to believe that if you romance Fenris and he has all that trauma after sex that he would be willing to risk going through it again for what seems to be a casual relationship. *shrugs* It's suggested in the dialogue that Fenris and Isabela have spent more than one night together. So... he doesn't experience the pain and memories with her? It doesn't make sense.

I also think Fenris would not have waited three years to talk to Hawke about that night together. Hadrianna's death was traumatic for him and he managed to apologise for his outburst. I also think it is unrealistic to suggest Hawke waited three years for him. My personal opinion is that the game developers were a bit lazy in this respect. It was a tidy place to end the dialogue and get on with other things. Personally, I would have preferred more dialogue and less missions.


It blocked out the w and s word??? Silly thing









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 kemz ... :o Coming in here LIKE A BOSS and summing up all my feelings about the terribly phony and thoughtless "romance" that is Fenris x Isabela.

aldien ... Excellent, you have been traumatized by my bizarre fantasies; my work here is done :wizard:

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kemz19691 wrote...

One more thing.... I don't believe Fenris was so "truthful" in his response to Hawke's "was it that bad?" when he said "It was more than I could have dreamed", or something like that.

He was so traumatized by the flashbacks that he didn't want to have sex with her/him anymore. If it was more than you could have dreamed - then why don't you want to keep doing it, Fenris??

Answer: "It's too much. It's too painful. I can't. I just ...can't."


I tooooooooootally agree.

He says, "It was fine" and then the camera points to Hawke looking pained, and THEN he says how great it was. He's trying to spare her feelings. It might have been more constructive to be honest, but I really think he's struggling with fight or flight as it is; that he's willing to have the conversation at all is a mark of how much he cares about her.

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aldien wrote...

I also think Fenris would not have waited three years to talk to Hawke about that night together. Hadrianna's death was traumatic for him and he managed to apologise for his outburst. I also think it is unrealistic to suggest Hawke waited three years for him. My personal opinion is that the game developers were a bit lazy in this respect. It was a tidy place to end the dialogue and get on with other things. Personally, I would have preferred more dialogue and less missions.


The two "3 years pass" sections of the game drive me crazy. Clearly, the developers have a timeline of events for their overall Thedas story arc, and so the story of the Champion had to take 7 years (or a decade if you count each play section as a year each) to match in with the larger story they want to tell. And ok, I like that there's a greater story, I just feel like they could possibly have found a smoother way to manage it within this particular game. The plot events sort of work spread out over that time, but the character relationships just don't, in my opinion. Especially the romances.

I guess that's what fic writing is for -- to fill those years?

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gingergen wrote...

kemz19691 wrote...

One more thing.... I don't believe Fenris was so "truthful" in his response to Hawke's "was it that bad?" when he said "It was more than I could have dreamed", or something like that.

He was so traumatized by the flashbacks that he didn't want to have sex with her/him anymore. If it was more than you could have dreamed - then why don't you want to keep doing it, Fenris??

Answer: "It's too much. It's too painful. I can't. I just ...can't."


I tooooooooootally agree.

He says, "It was fine" and then the camera points to Hawke looking pained, and THEN he says how great it was. He's trying to spare her feelings. It might have been more constructive to be honest, but I really think he's struggling with fight or flight as it is; that he's willing to have the conversation at all is a mark of how much he cares about her.


I doooooooon't agree, hehe. I think "it was better than anything I could have dreamed" was no lie. The way he says it, the way he corrects himself after "it was fine", suggests an honest reaction there. He is being truthful. I believe he experiences some degree of physical pain, but that in this case, the good weighs out the bad for him. He enjoyed the sex, the being with Hawke in this way.

Diplomatic female Hawke can aks him: "your markings, they hurt, don't they?"
And Fenris responds: "it's not that." He says that quite absentmindedly, dismissive, like he had almost forgotten about that part already. Pain/physical discomfort was not the main issue here. It is not the reason he pulls away. If it had really been that antagonizing for him, I think he would have broken it off sooner.

gingergen wrote...

aldien wrote...

I also think Fenris would not have waited three years to talk to Hawke about that night together. Hadrianna's death was traumatic for him and he managed to apologise for his outburst. I also think it is unrealistic to suggest Hawke waited three years for him. My personal opinion is that the game developers were a bit lazy in this respect. It was a tidy place to end the dialogue and get on with other things. Personally, I would have preferred more dialogue and less missions.


The two "3 years pass" sections of the game drive me crazy. Clearly, the developers have a timeline of events for their overall Thedas story arc, and so the story of the Champion had to take 7 years (or a decade if you count each play section as a year each) to match in with the larger story they want to tell. And ok, I like that there's a greater story, I just feel like they could possibly have found a smoother way to manage it within this particular game. The plot events sort of work spread out over that time, but the character relationships just don't, in my opinion. Especially the romances.

I guess that's what fic writing is for -- to fill those years? 


I admit I have a hard time trying to fill that gap in my head. I have been trying to come up with how exactly Fenris has been able to track down his sister as well.

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Good point Ren.

Fenris paid some men is all we know, but I wonder if Danarius caught wind of his efforts to find Varania and "helped out".

I think the game tries to imply that Fenris received help from Aveline as well, and I'd like to think a big part of it from Donnic. I've always had a soft spot for their friendship. But, Aveline is there telling him about the boat and the elf matching his description of Varania. So... here's a plot hole: How does he know what Varania looks like?

Yay for fanfiction! And things Fenris and smutty or implied smutty or simply fun. :innocent:

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renjility wrote...

Diplomatic female Hawke can aks him: "your markings, they hurt, don't they?"
And Fenris responds: "it's not that." He says that quite absentmindedly, dismissive, like he had almost forgotten about that part already. Pain/physical discomfort was not the main issue here. It is not the reason he pulls away. If it had really been that antagonizing for him, I think he would have broken it off sooner.


And this is what pisses me off about the M!Hawke x Fenris romance.  See, we never get that line.  We get some stupid "Is it because I'm a man?" line.  Yeah, like Fenris is going to be all, "You know, you're right Hawke.  I totally thought I was gay but it turns out I'm not.  Sorry, man!"  I mean, dumbest post-coital line in the history of post-coital lines.  Why can't diplomatic M!Hawke have the same line as diplomatic FemHawke.  Why doesn't SHE have to say, "Is it because I'm a woman?" (ROFL How hilarious would that be.  Imagnie Fenris' expression.  "Um ... no, that's not it, Hawke.")  

So FemHawke romance gets a nice little plot bumper while M!Hawke is just making sure the guy he just had awesome sex with is still gay.

I mean, WTF.

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motomotogirl wrote...

renjility wrote...

Diplomatic female Hawke can aks him: "your markings, they hurt, don't they?"
And Fenris responds: "it's not that." He says that quite absentmindedly, dismissive, like he had almost forgotten about that part already. Pain/physical discomfort was not the main issue here. It is not the reason he pulls away. If it had really been that antagonizing for him, I think he would have broken it off sooner.


And this is what pisses me off about the M!Hawke x Fenris romance.  See, we never get that line.  We get some stupid "Is it because I'm a man?" line.  Yeah, like Fenris is going to be all, "You know, you're right Hawke.  I totally thought I was gay but it turns out I'm not.  Sorry, man!"  I mean, dumbest post-coital line in the history of post-coital lines.  Why can't diplomatic M!Hawke have the same line as diplomatic FemHawke.  Why doesn't SHE have to say, "Is it because I'm a woman?" (ROFL How hilarious would that be.  Imagnie Fenris' expression.  "Um ... no, that's not it, Hawke.")  

So FemHawke romance gets a nice little plot bumper while M!Hawke is just making sure the guy he just had awesome sex with is still gay.

I mean, WTF.


Why in Thedas did they do that? That is just the weirdest piece of insecurity dialogue I have ever seen placed in a game. I've heard lots of people complain about MHawke's dialogue. In your opinion, is his dialogue not well written? I find most of FHawke's dialogue an emotionless pit. But, that's probably just me.

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motomotogirl wrote...
And this is what pisses me off about the M!Hawke x Fenris romance.  See, we never get that line.  We get some stupid "Is it because I'm a man?" line.  Yeah, like Fenris is going to be all, "You know, you're right Hawke.  I totally thought I was gay but it turns out I'm not.  Sorry, man!"  I mean, dumbest post-coital line in the history of post-coital lines.  Why can't diplomatic M!Hawke have the same line as diplomatic FemHawke.  Why doesn't SHE have to say, "Is it because I'm a woman?" (ROFL How hilarious would that be.  Imagnie Fenris' expression.  "Um ... no, that's not it, Hawke.")  

So FemHawke romance gets a nice little plot bumper while M!Hawke is just making sure the guy he just had awesome sex with is still gay.

I mean, WTF.


*dies laughing* That, was great, couldn't agree more.