Gah, top of thread! Must post picture! I wonder if I remember how...
Modifié par gingergen, 08 février 2012 - 10:26 .
Modifié par gingergen, 08 février 2012 - 10:26 .
kemz19691 wrote...
gingergen wrote...
kemz19691 wrote...
gingergen wrote...
I tooooooooootally agree.
He says, "It was fine" and then the camera points to Hawke looking pained, and THEN he says how great it was. He's trying to spare her feelings. It might have been more constructive to be honest, but I really think he's struggling with fight or flight as it is; that he's willing to have the conversation at all is a mark of how much he cares about her.
What if we're missing something here?
If Fenris only knew violence/rape, then what he experienced with Hawke would be beyond his dreaming. What references does he have but violence? I imagine their intimacy included caresses, kisses, holding, confessions of the heart and other spoken loveliness. It would have been overwhelming for someone like Fenris.
Fenris was abused like an animal - like an unwanted dog, all of his known or remembered life. Here was someone who impacted his life with all things beautiful and good.
I apolgize for stretching this discussion out - but I really enjoy this voicing my opinion on Fenris.![]()
Opinions are good! Even if I disagree with them.
A lot here is left up to our own personal interpretation. In your fade to black, you are imagining emotional intimacy. In my fade to black, I am imagining more wall-slamming. This... might say more about you and me than about what the writers intended to happen.(Though IMO I think they left it ambiguous on purpose.)
The awesome thing is that what IS shown can support either theory.
LOL! Okay, explain then how after the oil lamp passes, she wakes up in bed, looks over at the empty side of the bed, finds Fenris 'dressed' with his weapon on his back (ready to bolt) only to say: "was it really that bad?"
ahahahahha -- Come on. You know why she ended up sleeping in bed.
Fenris: That night...I can still remember your touch (yeah, and what else?)
Modifié par aldien, 08 février 2012 - 10:43 .
aldien wrote...
Who said they only did the dirty once?In my mind it took awhile for the memories to kick in. But, my mind is a scary perverted place.
gingergen wrote...
aldien wrote...
Fenris: Because of the pain from the rituals that gave me these markings
Does he actually say that? I always interpreted his unwillingness to get close to someone as a trust issue since he is being hunted. Well, that and the fact he was always on the run. When would he have time?
I might have transcribed this conversation just the other day...Fenris: I have never allowed anyone too close. When my markeings were created, the pain was... extraordinary. And the memory lingers. But you are unlike any woman I have ever met. With you, it might be different.
Again, pretty ambiguous. Does he have actual pain when touched? Or does touch remind him of the experience of being branded with the markings?
And to your other postI read somewhere that the person who wrote Ander's rivalmance dialogue
was writing about mental illness or their experience with it. It was
something along those lines. If it's not true let me know.
I hadn't heard this, but I would believe it. I romanced him on my first playthrough, and it broke my heart that he told Hawke he loved her in act 2, and then completely and abruptly emotionally withdrew, leaving her with a live-in boyfriend who wasn't even very nice to her anymore except when her mother died. And THEN he lied to her, and did what he did. Stupid Anders.
motomotogirl wrote...
they made sweet sweet love, slowly and passionately, then fell asleep in one another's arms.
aldien wrote...
Fenris: I have never allowed anyone too close. When my markeings were
created, the pain was... extraordinary. And the memory lingers. But you
are unlike any woman I have ever met. With you, it might be different
I always wondered if that meant maybe someone had touched him and it was painful like Danarius and Hadrianna. But he thinks with Hawke it won't hurt??? It's kind of a convoluted statement.
AbsoluteApril wrote...
motomotogirl wrote...
they made sweet sweet love, slowly and passionately, then fell asleep in one another's arms.
You're not alone, that's how I saw it in my mind as well... and I'm normally a perv
AbsoluteApril wrote...
You're not alone, that's how I saw it in my mind as well... and I'm normally a perv
kemz19691 wrote...
aldien wrote...
Fenris: I have never allowed anyone too close. When my markeings were
created, the pain was... extraordinary. And the memory lingers. But you
are unlike any woman I have ever met. With you, it might be different
I always wondered if that meant maybe someone had touched him and it was painful like Danarius and Hadrianna. But he thinks with Hawke it won't hurt??? It's kind of a convoluted statement.
I suspect that Hadrianna may have been deeply in love with Danarius - like hero worship. I think she may have tormented Fenris out of jealousy perhaps? Fenris was extremely close to Danarius - bodyguard, weapon, sex sex slave, etc.
I say this because Fenris said Hadrianna was a social climber and would sell her children if Danrius wished it. This means she was grossly obedient - slavishly devoted to Danarius. But Fenris was his #1 slave - a position maybe Hadrianna coveted?
Also, if Danirus coveted Fenris as a prize, why would Hadrianna (who worshipped Danarius) abuse Fenris? It had to be out of jealousy. Added that Danirus was PROBABLY gay (no mention of a family - wife, children, lover, etc.), meant that he didn't give Hadrianna the kind of 'time' forced upon Fenris.
There are women who deny the sexual orientation of a man of which they're enamoured only to create hell on earth for his interest. I'm thinking that's what happened here - Hadrianna was driven to abuse Fenris out of jealousy.
I don't think Fenris understood her motivations- only that she was a social climber. I don't think Fenris understood because he lacked the reference for it. I don't think he sought that kind of attention from his master - and that becuase he didn't seek after it, he wouldn't think anyone else would, either.
See how complex these characters and the relationships they forge in the game are?? heheeheh
Cosmochyck wrote...
AbsoluteApril wrote...
motomotogirl wrote...
they made sweet sweet love, slowly and passionately, then fell asleep in one another's arms.
You're not alone, that's how I saw it in my mind as well... and I'm normally a perv
I go back and forth on it. Part of me thinks it was sweet and lovely, and part of me thinks it was definitely more than once, with a little dirty and a lot of sexy thrown in.
And the wall-slamming always bugged me - it was a copout to have BOTH male and female Hawke use it. Just easier on the developers. I don't think she would have slammed him against the wall, especially if it's when he's back in your foyer the second time with his "command to go and I shall" comment.
I picture more the kisses, realizing Sandal, Bodahn and Maker knows who else are in the next room, and the leading him upstairs to the bedroom to continue. And I have to say, it's a good thing she's just in "clothes" as his armor looks like it would take more than a minute to get off!
gingergen wrote...
AbsoluteApril wrote...
You're not alone, that's how I saw it in my mind as well... and I'm normally a perv
I am definitely feeling like a perv in this scenario...
My fiance would be so proud.
aldien wrote...
You know, I'm not trying to be sexist but when FHawke throws him against the wall it doesn't feel right. Now when Fenris slams her against the wall that's just damn sexy in my opinion. But, as a woman, I wouldn't have attempted to do the same to him. He seems so small, like dainty when she does that. Is that just me? Plus, I'd just be more eager to get his clothing off at that point.
Cosmochyck wrote...
Maybe we could all get together in a big giant sleepover and have him come read stories to us?? Then he'd only have to go to one place! Who's in???I'm afraid I'd be sitting there all night poking him like I do Fenris to hear him say "I am yours".
Yes, the M!Hawke line is really lame, but I found some of the F!Hawke lines lame as well - just not usually around the romance part. And there is no way my Hawke would have remained sitting on the bed as he walked out. NO WAY.
But I'm sure BW will continue to work on differing dialogue options for future games to keep everyone happy!
gingergen wrote...
*cough* Personally, I find it kind of hot. ... Don't mind me, I'll be sitting over here in the perv corner...aldien wrote...
You know, I'm not trying to be sexist but when FHawke throws him against the wall it doesn't feel right. Now when Fenris slams her against the wall that's just damn sexy in my opinion. But, as a woman, I wouldn't have attempted to do the same to him. He seems so small, like dainty when she does that. Is that just me? Plus, I'd just be more eager to get his clothing off at that point.
Modifié par Tashash, 09 février 2012 - 01:58 .
Modifié par Tashash, 09 février 2012 - 01:57 .
Cosmochyck wrote...
And the wall-slamming always bugged me - it was a copout to have BOTH male and female Hawke use it. Just easier on the developers. I don't think she would have slammed him against the wall, especially if it's when he's back in your foyer the second time with his "command to go and I shall" comment.
I picture more the kisses, realizing Sandal, Bodahn and Maker knows who else are in the next room, and the leading him upstairs to the bedroom to continue. And I have to say, it's a good thing she's just in "clothes" as his armor looks like it would take more than a minute to get off!
aldien wrote...
I read a long time ago about what happens if you hand Fenris over to Danarius. Doesn't his letter say something about Fenris and him once being close or something along those lines? I've never handed Fenris over, but I admit I was curious to know what happened. It seemed to suggest their was a relationship there, though I would definitely put it down to Stockholm Syndrome. How could anyone ever have true emotional attachment when they are not free to choose anything?
motomotogirl wrote...
aldien wrote...
Who said they only did the dirty once?In my mind it took awhile for the memories to kick in. But, my mind is a scary perverted place.
PERVERT!![]()
In my sad, sad slightly pre-teen-esque mind, they made sweet sweet love, slowly and passionately, then fell asleep in one another's arms.
I know; I have issues.
aldien wrote...
As far as Isabela and Fenris go, I've never let them get together in ACT III. I am *sniffles* a Fenris good time girl. There I said it. I do know what is said between them. I think they are two people who have worth and trust issues to some degree. Fenris moreso than Isabela. I do find it hard to believe that if you romance Fenris and he has all that trauma after sex that he would be willing to risk going through it again for what seems to be a casual relationship. *shrugs* It's suggested in the dialogue that Fenris and Isabela have spent more than one night together. So... he doesn't experience the pain and memories with her? It doesn't make sense.
Modifié par Night Dreams, 09 février 2012 - 08:58 .
Modifié par Night Dreams, 09 février 2012 - 09:08 .
aldien wrote...
I really agree with this. In so many respects I have always felt Hadrianna was more of a torment than Danarius. I don't know. I go back and forth on that one. I wonder how young Fenris was when Danarius gained ownership of him? Ugggg it's so awful if you put it in realistic terms, which I try not to do.
I think she may have tormented Fenris out of jealousy perhaps?
Oh, I really think so. Maybe she felt Danarius valued him more both as a commodity and a lover?
I say this because Fenris said Hadrianna was a social climber and would sell her children if Danrius wished it.
That really says it all doesn't it. I think she would have slept with Danarius in a heartbeat if it meant gaining more of his favor. But what did being his "prized pupil" really mean?
Added that Danirus was PROBABLY gay (no mention of a family - wife,
children, lover, etc.), meant that he didn't give Hadrianna the kind of
'time' forced upon Fenris.
I read a long time ago about what happens if you hand Fenris over to Danarius. Doesn't his letter say something about Fenris and him once being close or something along those lines? I've never handed Fenris over, but I admit I was curious to know what happened. It seemed to suggest their was a relationship there, though I would definitely put it down to Stockholm Syndrome. How could anyone ever have true emotional attachment when they are not free to choose anything?
See how complex these characters and the relationships they forge in the game are??
I agree, but I think at times things are too ambigious. I'm all for giving the players freedom but there are so many unanswered questions!
Wonderful insights.