aldien wrote...
Moto said: The only fics I ever read that mentioned size were written by gay men.
You need to read more fics. Plenty of women mention it in their writing, usually those who know what they are talking about. Why wouldn't they? Besides, width is better than length if you want to consider elves and their smaller bodies.
People are so uptight about sex and anatomy. Everyone has imagined Fenris naked on this thread since some of you are mentioning elves would be small. I just have the balls to state it.
I've read a lot of fics lol A LOT. Probably well over 500. (In fact one night I sat and read 500 drabbles from the Bleach fandom until 5 in the morning). I've also written a lot of fics, many of which have explicit scenes. I am more personally concerned with emotional intimacy, and I have often tried to convey this through descriptions of physical intimacy. But I'm just more likely to write "He began to thrust inside him" as opposed to "He began to thrust inside him with his massive nine inch dick."

Back when I was just figuring out how to use the internet and, erm, learning quite a bit about the male anatomy as a consequence, all I really came across were gay porn sites, not picture porn but written porn (I guess it took too long to upload images back then LOL). OMG It was ten inch dick this and massive thick **** that. I once came across this real person slash fiction on a gay website that was written about the guys on the English football team and I swear to god about five paragraphs were dedicated to the guys whipping out their dicks and an immense amount of purple prose describing each one!

I never laughed so hard xD
I do think it is best not to accuse folks of being uptight about sex just because we are not interested in dick size. Honestly, I invite you to take a look at some of the stuff I've written, but the truth is, I just am not interested in PWP. I don't want to get into my real life, really, but sex has never been a big priority for me; does this make me a prude? No, I'm not afraid of it; I just don't particularly seek it out or always enjoy it on a personal level.
And judging from the way everyone pretends to blush around here I have to admit I've been thinking I'm pretty much the most sexually open person here because talking about that has never bothered me lol (well, after a certain age and level of experience, of course).
So, again, I don't care about the size of Fenris' shlong. Doesn't make me a friggin prude.