I'm so sorry, but this statement makes me very uncomfortable. Fenris should not need to be in a romantic relationship to figure out who he is or what his place in the world is, and if he does, then that is something he needs to work on too. Finding "independence" through someone else is not independence at all, but another type of dependence.motomotogirl wrote...
Fenris's real issues are all about slavery and being a free man and being sure of who he is in the world. He needs Hawke to help him figure that out.
That's the why the thought of not romancing Fenris just makes me sad, and it's why I have to not recruit him if I want to romance someone else. Especially since no way does Isabela take Hawke's place in that regard!! Sex is nice, but that's about one twentieth of what Fenris really needs in a relationship.
Granted, no one is completely independent and it's clear that Fenris needs friends and loved ones just like everyone else, and if he happens to fall in love with Hawke (and the latter doesn't break his heart) then that's great too. I just don't see how not having a serious romantic relationship in the 7-10yrs he knew Hawke is worse than Hawke not picking him up at all. (I mean, Platonic Friend Hawke can solve all of his quests almost line for line and help him become a happier, calmer, freer person same as Love Interest Hawke, just without being his love interest, which I think is just fine. Fenris can discover romantic love on his own time and his own terms. I have faith in him. =)
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