aldien wrote...
If Moto can complain when we talk about too much traditional crap (her words) then I can complain when she makes Fenris into a baby making machine.Yes, it is all make believe and yes I am all for people imagining what they want, until they try and railroad a discussion into their favor through manipulation and carefully selected word choice.
aldien, we already talked about that comment, the 'traditional crap' thing and I know you took offence by it. Moto told us her family were all having babies and even trying to poke fun at her not wanting any and so she felt it was all becoming a bit too much. I am not trying to be a smartarse but is it possibly the other way around with you? Do you take a lot of flak for being a 'standard family' person? I only ask as it seems to me you react very strongly when the traditional views are up for debate. Anyway, I wish you could see that it wasn't a personal attack on you and that she was referring to her personal situation.
Time and time again there are these nasty little underhanded remarks that make me (and whoever happens to agree with me on the day) sound like the bully and her the victim, when in actuality we both just have huge varying opinions on the matter.
I may be daft but just don't see where you read those 'nasty little underhanded remarks'. The only reason I reacted was that it seemed to me you both answered rather harshly to an innocent comment on someone's mention of a picture of pregnant Fenris which was not an attempt at trying to railroad the conversation. It felt unkind to me and if it had been a reply to one of my comments, I would have felt hurt and slightly ridiculed.
No aldien, please don't think that, you misunderstand completely. There isn't anything unfair in you talking about Hawke as a mother, no one has said that. We're here to discuss freely, right? Share views and headcanons. And as for the 'traditional crap', it was one comment, placed out of frustration and poorly worded, please can't you let it go?But if I dare speak how I see Fenris then it is completely unfair. I'm suddenly the minority beater because I have more traditional crap views.
Yes, true, we talked about the non-baby scenario but we were just talking about how we saw it, we didn't in any way try to bash your views. If you felt that way, I sincerely apologise and hope you can see that that wasn't anyone's intention. We are not here to put anyone down, none of us!
How many of you went off on the I don't see Hawke with a baby tangent when I mentioned Fenris and Hawke having children? Then you are no different than me when I went off on my Fenris not being a woman tangent.
The hyena thing was just for laughs since you talked about hotdog shaped babies which brought extremely amusing imagery to my mind. It was just an odd fact I was reminded of when reading your words, I wasn't trying to talk down to you or anything like that. I'm sorry if it came across that way, that was never my intention
Whatever... I'll say what I please and I guess just be the big bad wolf.
You can lower the view to whatever denominator you want be it wolf or whatever. Differing opinions are valid no matter how other species procreate.
And I apologise to all of you for continuing this, I just needed to explain myself so there were no misunderstandings. I really like this thread and the people here, I have lots of fun reading what you all think and I want us all to feel that way. ...I'll stop talking now.
Modifié par dracuella, 17 juin 2012 - 02:54 .
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I apologize. I was on the defensive at that point and being a biatch. 
] <-- See you can turn any situation, even the most unpleasant ones, into a fangirl moment.
