Okay, sure, let's go here.
Upsettingshorts wrote...
Define a "necessary" comment?
Okay, if you want to play semantics, maybe "neccessary" was the wrong word, and maybe I should have just said what I meant: what you said was ugly and mean-spirited, and specifically constructed to make someone else unhappy. Unneccessary, I suppose, because that has even less to do with this thread than repeated posts about Fenris's hips.
Upsettingshorts wrote...Must I squee enthusiastically at every piece of fanart - no matter if I genuinely appreciate it or not
I've personally commented on three? four? pieces of fanart in this entire thread, and haven't said anything to any of the fanfiction, because it's not something I personally agree with or enjoy. So obviously, unless I'm a gigantic hypocrite, no, I don't think you "must" do that at all.
Upsettingshorts wrote...
swoon at every single aspect of Fenris's anatomy?
Again with the "must" -- no, there is no obligation to do this. And to be honest, I understand the frustration that the thread is happy to wallow there instead of engaging in meaningful dialogue. There are many things about Fenris more interesting than his pouty lips or his dark eyebrows or his deep eyes. Of course, that's worth talking about, too, but yes, this thread spends a great deal of time talking about that and the last thing it needs is one more person.
Upsettingshorts wrote...
Speculate wildly as to what his posture implies?
I don't see what this one hurts, and the discussion on this seemed to be about elven physiology, which I personally found interesting, though I didn't comment on it.
Upsettingshorts wrote...
Dream up whatever out-of-character fantasy would suit my personal desires, and then share it?
Already said it: I am NOT into fanfiction. It makes me cringe at best. So no, I'm not asking for that, either.
Upsettingshorts wrote...
What if treating him and his situation like I am and he is an adult is what I want to talk about?
Not exactly sure what you're saying, but if what you want to talk about is treating his situation like he's an adult, you're more than welcome to make a comment saying "I think it's brutally hard to imagine him in this situation, it must be really depersonalizing, blah blah blah." I would have definitely jumped right in to discuss that with you, as would many other people.
Upsettingshorts wrote...
Reading a thread and seeing a bunch of filler comments rains on my parade.
Rains on mine, too. I rarely participate and usually just skim through. Not my thing. I'm really a lot like you. I like a good, deep discussion better than sitting around cooing over small things that don't matter for pages on end. I had more fun analyzing the hell out of the short story last night with you and Pseudo than I have since the heavy speculation over the voice actor. In fact, it was my best Fenris thread night in memory, and I wish we could have more like it.
The difference between us is that I don't pick petty little fights designed to make someone feel stupid when they're enjoying themselves doing something I'm not. When I don't like what the thread is doing, I bring up a topic that I want to talk about. If nobody bites, well, I have other things to do.
Your tone was combatitive, cruel, and petty, and I'm going to call you on it, because the Fenris thread can be inane, but I'd rather that than have it be ugly.