happy-emu wrote...
Other people have agreed or disagreed with this, and they have every right to. The element of mystery was debated (now buried under 15 pages or so) and I think keekee53 is just late to the party putting in her/his opinion.
I would ask from whose perspective this would be, the player's, or the PC's? After all, the PC wouldn't know the character's sexuality unless it was obviously stated (Isabela.) That being the case, from the PC's perspective, the 'toughness'/'mysteriousness' of the character should not be crippled upon the initial encounter. It should remain intact unless the character immediately reacts cowardly (proving they're not 'tough') or immediately reveals their sexuality (which the PC sees as un-masculine.)
Unless, of course, the PC you role's perception of the character is instantly shattered upon said character 'outting' themself? Which still strikes me as a little strange. If the character succeeds in
proving time and time again that they are strong, why would the PC do a complete 180 upon learning that they swing both ways? Unless the PC just finds people who fancy both genders... effeminate. Which I suppose is fair, if it's a character trait of your PC.
Or maybe that's just me. I like to play games from the character's perspective, not my own.