Bigdoser wrote...
Can I meet your grandpa? He sounds awesome. Its quite funny that a war vet would consider paragon shep a very good leader while some people on this board call paragon shep stupid. Anyway people have different prespectives.
I just asked him about this actually (I read some of the forum replies to him, he sends his thanks to everyone who wrote kind words)...
Anyhow, I discussed this idea of how paragon Shep is typically perceived as "stupid" ... or more accurately, has "Honor Before Reason"... namely dealing with how ME2 ends for a paragon vs a renegade.
He says that while from tactical and strategic perspective, he can see why some would condemn the paragon choice, he again told me of an important difference in the War between how Canadian troops treated captured German soldiers vs how Germans treated captured Canadians... It's a real-life example of Honor Before Reason.
(The following is a summation of his explanation) - In the War, logic tells you that it's best to get whatever information you can get out of a capture soldier, then kill him.... keeping him alive means leaving behind additional (and needed) soldiers to guard them, feed them, transport them... take care of them, basically.
Killing the captured Germans would have been the logical course of action.
At this point in the war, Canadian forces were stretched thin and worked to near death by British command.... many Canadian units began to get captured / routed. The Germans executed over 70% of captured Canadian soldiers.
Canadian forces, stretched thin and overworked - took 99% of all surendering German forces alive and held as prisoners (individual soldiers did on occassion commit murder against captured enemy soldiers out of hatred and grief over lost brothers... but this was rare, isolated and the standing order was to always take surrendering soldiers alive).
The Americans & Brits also took their German prisoners alive, rather than executing them like the Germans were doing on a large scale.
"We'd be no better than the goddamned Krauts," <--- Gramps words. "You can't always pick the easiest or smartest choices in life.... sometimes 'right' trumps 'smart', at least if you want to live with yourself."
However, he does explain that his admiration for paragon Shepard had little to do with the strategic choices Shepard make, but more importantly, with how (as a Commander), she treated her subordinates throughout the storyline of ME1 & 2. The way she showed understanding, compassion, concern for their well-being and problems.... Shep was a commander who listened and cared about her troops, looked after them.
He disliked Renegade Shep because he brow-beats his men - puts them down, has no interest in their problems or concerns (or complains that he needs to deal with their problem, shows disinterest and even disdain at them) He treats them like instruments rather than people.... sadly, people existed like that in the second Great War, and it got a lot of good boys killed needlessly.
As gramps put it: "He's a jackass that couldn't muster enough confidence in his men to climb a tree to save a kitten in the real world, unless he did it at gunpoint."