I'd just like to elaborate on two "complaints" and how they relate to eachother in my view.
"Tali is a fangirl"
First of all, this some very poor and somewhat offensive wording, leading me to normally ignore arguements with this sentiment. But anyway, it's true to an extent, Tali has immense respect for Shepard, and she does show it. This isn't just limited to maleShep, but femShep as well. Shepard is basically a galactic hero(in), and Tali and Garrus were with him/her the whole way through, leading to both of them developing what could easily be described as reverence for him/her.
Ignoring the admittedly jarring fact that you could treat her wrong in ME1 with that simply being retconned in ME2, Shepard has been kinder and more respectful to her than anyone else. Allowing her to work on the most advanced ship in the galaxy and giving her credit for her work, potentially even providing her with the most prestigious pilgrimage gift she could ever want.
For male Shepards, this mutual respect could lead to something more in ME2, though Tali's inherent insecurity and considerably more noticeable respect might make it seem a bit one sided for some. The fact that Shepard has about as much personality as a cardboard box doesn't help either. (Though BioWare did do an admirable job in LotSB to give him/her slightly deeper inner workings, even allowing him/her to convey desires of a more extensive relationship in the future with his/her LI of choice.)
But while her continued display of reverence might make it seem a bit obsessive, I really do think that's hugely exaggerated. Yes, she does mention Shepard in her voice diaries on Haestrom, so what? She recently discovered Shepard was alive, and she's starting to relive past moments; that's nostalgia, mixed with, again, respect.
Then there's the related "issue" of people informing male Shepard that Tali is attracted to him. Again, so what? People aren't allowed to have feelings for eachother? It wasn't as if this came out of nowhere, if you were actually interested in Tali, you might've taken her constant praise and respect as hints to such feelings. The other crewmembers are merely confirming it in that case.
On the other hand, Shepard might be oblivious to those feelings, in which case it could come as a bit of a shock. But it should still be possible to deduce how they came to be.
But yeah, there we go, Tali has feelings for maleShep, deal with it. But to what extent? Her seemingly one-sided respect and continuous assertions might lead to people perceiving it as a crush, and that would be perfectly reasonable to assume, even moreso if you/your Shepard doesn't have those same feelings.
However, this brings me to the next "issue": "Tali is a virgin"
I can see how this, independetly, can be considered a sign of intentionally catering to a particular male fantasy. This is what happened with Liara in ME1; which, combined with the fact that the entire asari race is basically fanservice and her considerably lacking characterization, lead to her being rather unappealing for me.
This isn't the case with Tali, it's all about the context. Tali isn't a virgin because she was secluded from the outside world, or because she's too shy and nervous. (The latter being traits people seem to associate for her, even though it's only reserved to very particular parts of the romance, where it's understandable she'd have them. As others have already explained.) She is a virgin because she
chose to be, in her own words: She never trusted anyone enough to share herself in such a way.
Now, this is important, Tali being a virgin isn't (just) part of the male fantasy,
it's used to show the extent of her trust and love for Shepard.
Modifié par Thundertactics, 03 janvier 2011 - 04:32 .