No now NONE of them will be immersive because in order for them to be gender neutral they have to focus on... the romance character. Not on Hawke at all, not the relationship between Hawke and the character, just the character. Like Leliana from DAO. I felt like I was listening to her whole life story just so I could romance her.
you sure make alot of assumptions there...
Did it ever occur to you that your dissatisfaction with leliana's romance had absolutely nothing to do with her being "gender neutral" and everything to do with how she was written to be?
Is the possibility that each LI being bi AND having a fantastic romance experience completely at odds with each other? Really?
I'm sorry but gender neutrality means nothing. Using a mod I was able to romance alistair with my male warden... and barring some gender specific comments that in many cases could have said "He" instead of "She" it would have felt perfectly normal to me still, I had a perfectly immersive romance with him.
And has it occurred to you that maybe... just maybe... if bioware was concerned about "gender neutrality" that they might have different types of flirting and some different dialogue depending on your gender? And if they did would that necessarily mean the romances would suck?
No I am sorry but gender neutrality has very little to do with how immersive and how enjoyable a romance will be (at least for me) and it has EVERYTHING to do with the personality portrayed and the story being told (a nice smile and good sense of humour don't hurt either

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