well, i tried to express my opinions the best i could do, i'm aware that plenty of you may disagree, but it doesn't seems to me that what i wrote was unreasonable.. i'll try to explain myself better then:
LobselVith8 wrote...
The Warden can do precisely that in Redcliffe, dealing with a denizen of the Fade and through dialogue alone, he can end up freeing Connor from the Desire Demon's grasp and gaining the knowledge of blood magic. Since Merrill was trying to change the plight of her people after centuries of turmoil, I respect her being pro-active in trying to aid her people. Merrill's actions could have irrevocably changed the lives of elves across Thedas for the better, but we'll never know for sure.
The choice of using of using BM in origins is risky as well, the warden is adviced several times by npc, and, even in that situation, it was a questionable decision: risking the life of one mage (or more, depending on the situation you all know) to save connor's. A noble task indeed, but still dangerous..
I respect her purpose to restore ancient elven lore as well, i said that a couple of times, but this doesn't mean that you must allow her to pose a threat to people around her.. you may want to justify her, in a playthrogh my cautious Hawke prefered to choose differently.
LobselVith8 wrote...
Marethari made the decision to let loose a demon into her own body without telling anyone about it, while Merrill asked Hawke to accompany her so she could protect innocents from the worst case scenerio.
LobselVith8 wrote...
The Grey Wardens clearly think otherwise, given The Joining and the Grey Warden mages who use blood magic against the darkspawn.
what? this is not blood magic! I didn't saw any blood ritual in the Joining... it's just drinking tainted blood and pray to survive.. I saw no spells casted.. maybe I'm mistaken, but i'm pretty sure this has nothing to do with blood rituals...
The Order needs all the help available to fight darkspawn, blood mage aren't criminals, it's obvious.. i'm not saying "blood magic should never be used", i'd rather say "use blood magic as an extreme solution" and Merrill's purpose is not enough to my Hawke to put so many people in danger: her clan, her people..
This doesn't mean that I don't acknokledge her, I did it in some playthroughs, it's just my "canon" Hawke's will to protect her even from herself, because he loves her, I think you can't blame me about that xP
- and, notice, that it doesn't necessarily mean distrust.
LobselVith8 wrote...
And plenty of people have argued in favor of what Anders did because they see the Chantry controlled Circles as being wrong, deplorable, or even slavery. That's why the threads dealing with mages (and even Anders) tend to go as high as 50 pages or more, because people have strong opinions on the issue.
again, it's strictly about personal opinions, I was just trying to compare xD
LobselVith8 wrote...
Merrill nearly died because of Marethari's intervention.
The keeper willingly allowed the demon to posses her body in attempt to prevent him from escaping his prison, because she knew that Merrill would have freed him.
She obviously lost control and the demon tried to kill Hawke & co. but, what if she had not interfered? Who can say that Merrill would have surely survived the "friendly chat" with the demon?
In the end, I don't want to annoy anyone with my points of view, just explaining why I would chose a rival path with Merrill (and a rivalmance) without considering myself mean or selfish ^^
always open to your suggestions, by the way!