I disagree that Alistair putting his duty before himself, or being willing to die so easily, means that he doesn't love the Warden. Those actions can be wholly unrelated to whether or not Alistair loves her. As for him leaving if betrayed at the Landsmeet...well, that's turned out to be an entire other discussion.

They were talking that out over at the Gush thread, and it's an interesting topic. I tend to agree with those who said Alistair's decision in that scenario was one borne of emotional impulse and doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't not expect the Warden to put her duty above his feelings. That was a tremendous emotional blow and I doubt he'd be thinking rationally.
sevalaricgirl wrote...
Actually, it is my warden's personality. Why does she have to care about Fereldon? She's merely doing her job. She's Dalish, her people have already moved on. I don't see defiance at the role she was thrust into as static. She fights the darkspawn. She is the muscle behind stopping the blight but she only stayed because she fell for Alistair and he stayed. She asked him to leave but he wouldn't. She saved the circle, saved Connor and Eamon, didn't defile the ashes but she did all this because she considered it a job she had to do. She didn't choose the GWs and wouldn't have chosen it. She's angry. She fights the darkspawn because it's fun, but her goal is to go to Tevinter and find a cure for the taint that has cursed her. I'm an author and I know about dynamic characters but we all play the game how we want to play it. I enjoy playing the way I do, but don't expect others to. I've played the game 15 times and I've never gotten bored with how I play my characters.
It's static if she doesn't change and develop in some way i.e. her personality/character stands still; that is the very definition of static. If throughout the story she even developed into being even more angry and defiant, that would be dynamic. I didn't mean to imply all dynamic characters change for the
good.
I also certainly didn't mean to imply that everyone must play the game in a dynamic way. By all means, play how you want and how you most enjoy it.