Let's not forget that Anders came from a culture (the Circle) which didn't exactly encourage long term romantic relationships (based on "true love") between the mages. So yeah, I would agree that he probably didn't think too deeply about having more than casual relationships with people. Even after escaping from the tower, he would have had more pressing concerns (like survival and not being caught) than making any kind of deep, emotional connection with someone.
Not saying he couldn't change (although of course, saying he *should* change is kind of a value judgment IMO), just saying it makes perfect sense why he was the way he was.
Modifié par Riona45, 09 février 2011 - 04:55 .