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[Maria Caliban]

ishmaeltheforsaken wrote...

Pseudocognition wrote...

So is the fear that they leave your Hawke spontaneously? Or that they leave your Hawke for someone of their own sex? Would it be fine if they left your Hawke for someone of your Hawke's sex? I mean... what does this have to do with bisexuality?

Well, addressing this point... I'll say that being bisexual has nothing to do with anything until they leave you for someone opposite your sex. An ex-girlfriend left me for a man, and it hurt more than had she left me for a woman. It feels different.

This is true.

Being a lesbian and having your girlfriend leave you for a dude is a terrible blow to the ego.

[mesmerizedish]

Ryzaki wrote...

Upsettingshorts it's odd but your new avatar makes me feel more amicable towards you. 

...That's...some weirdness right there. Your old avatar pissed me off for some reason.

See? Awesome example right here. I'm intolerant of people who talk smack about Fat Lee. This intolerance is not reprehensible, but commendable.

[Ryzaki]

moilami wrote...
Actually you should just smile and not get agitated. It is just stupid to let someone get power over your feelings by words. Then, if a real physical fight is about to happen, that's another story and rogue tactics or whatever to deal with the situation come handy.

Hard not to get agitated when you keep hearing the same spiel over and over again. 

And I know I'm an overemotional lashing out, petulant, loud, brash, quick to overreact, whiney, silly person. (Who apparently shuts down when someone cries near me or start crying myself neither of which are helpful to the situation). So I can't just smile. 

Gah. I don't know. I can't just ignore stuff like that though I should. 

And I don't mind being uncomfortable. It was just the way she phrased it that bugged me. 

MorningBird wrote...

Also, molest away!  But be gentle. 

Yay! I'll be very very gentle. <3 

Modifié par Ryzaki, 26 février 2011 - 08:16 .

[Safernya666]

0_o Well, I don't see why people throws rocks because they misunderstood what I wrote. I never had any intention to harm anyone with my clumsy sentences. I happen to be a very clumsy girl when it comes to conversations!



Ah! Alas! Looks like again, I meant something without knowing it, when it was not intentionnal! >.<



Joking around about stereotypes don't mean I agree them, damnit! XD Would be nice if once and for all, this subject was closed!



>.> Why people take everything so seriously, anyway?



So let's switch subject before someone commits a murder for misunderstanding!



What about... romances? That is the main point of this thread, isn't it?



I say all bi, so everyone stop throwing rocks and plates and cups and... mugs. Or whatever.



Would be nice some love after such hatred.

[elirian_19]

What's this about someone finding kiss scripts for Isabela and Anders that were gender specific but none for Merrill and Fenris? How can this be?? They're all bi!



THE CAKE IS A LIE!

[moilami]

Ryzaki wrote...

Bekkael wrote...

Wow, lots of intolerance. Everyone has the right to their opinion, even if others find it offensive. That's my opinion anyway. =)

So it's okay if someone finds you fithy and disgusting and say so? You're not allowed to say anything in response to that? 

 

What Bekkael said was that everyone has the right to their opinion, even if others find it offensive. That is very true. As much as some people want here, they still don't have any rights to become any sort of thought police. Sorry.

And if someone say you are filthy and disgusting you are naturally entitled to say your opinion of them - not saying it would be wise or intelligent to do though.

Taunt is taunt is taunt. Mobs get taunted.

[Bekkael]

Ryzaki wrote...

Bekkael wrote...

Wow, lots of intolerance. Everyone has the right to their opinion, even if others find it offensive. That's my opinion anyway. =)

So it's okay if someone finds you fithy and disgusting and say so? You're not allowed to say anything in response to that? 

Now I agree no one should starts snarling like mad dogs but you certainly shouldn't smile and nod as someone says things about you that are untrue and hurtful. 

Of course not, but it just suddenly had the feel of mob violence. Did someone say someone else was filthy and disgusting? If so, I missed it. My default mode is diplomat/peacemaker, so sorry for attempting to mediate, it's the parent in me. I'll just stay on the sidelines in future.

[Ryzaki]

elirian_19 wrote...

What's this about someone finding kiss scripts for Isabela and Anders that were gender specific but none for Merrill and Fenris? How can this be?? They're all bi!

THE CAKE IS A LIE!

Poor poor Sten. Never got any cake. 

And I told you lot from the beginning they weren't all bi.  

Though I did want Fenris.  I guess Anders won't be so bad as long as I take Templar spec. Might need to Holy Smite to use on Vengence to avoid being eaten during sexytimes.   

Bekkael wrote...

Of course not, but it just suddenly had the feel of mob violence. Did someone say someone else was filthy and disgusting? If so, I missed it. My default mode is diplomat/peacemaker, so sorry for attempting to mediate, it's the parent in me. I'll just stay on the sidelines in future.

Odd. I didn't feel any mob violence. Just people getting irritated. I've been the cause of it myself. 

And no the filthy and digusting was exaggerations on my part. I was exaggerating to make a point so to speak. 

You don't need to feel sorry. I just don't see much need for mediation is all. You don't need to go or anything I wasn't trying to drive you away. 

Modifié par Ryzaki, 26 février 2011 - 08:20 .

[mesmerizedish]

Filament wrote...

I have noticed that some women tend to be uncomfortable with the man they hook up with being bisexual. I don't really understand why but seeing as how I don't understand I don't really feel qualified to pass judgment. Though I'd like to think merely the matter of being attracted to selected groups of people is not in itself bigoted. I mean everyone has preferences, physical or mental.

Right, it's not. It becomes bigotry when you're judging someone else for their preferences. Boy likes girl, and girl likes boy. Girl knows that boy is going to have an attraction to other girls. Why does it matter if he has attractions to other boys too? He's with girl.

[Safernya666]

Wait! Wait! Wait! Kiss scripts for Isabela and Anders, but none for Fenris and Merrill!



*__* What does it mean?! Isabela kisses Anders? 0_o



*lost*

[MorningBird]

Safernya666 wrote...

0_o Well, I don't see why people throws rocks because they misunderstood what I wrote. I never had any intention to harm anyone with my clumsy sentences. I happen to be a very clumsy girl when it comes to conversations!

Ah! Alas! Looks like again, I meant something without knowing it, when it was not intentionnal! >.

Joking around about stereotypes don't mean I agree them, damnit! XD Would be nice if once and for all, this subject was closed!

>.> Why people take everything so seriously, anyway?

So let's switch subject before someone commits a murder for misunderstanding!

What about... romances? That is the main point of this thread, isn't it?

I say all bi, so everyone stop throwing rocks and plates and cups and... mugs. Or whatever.

Would be nice some love after such hatred.

Wha--you mean I took all this cutlery out for nothing? Aw..... *puts it away*  Fine.

But yes, all of the LI's are bi. *throws confetti*

[mesmerizedish]

elirian_19 wrote...

What's this about someone finding kiss scripts for Isabela and Anders that were gender specific but none for Merrill and Fenris? How can this be?? They're all bi!

THE CAKE IS A LIE!

Of course they're all bi. THE CAKE IS A BI!

There were some references in some files to kissmale and kissfemale for Isabela and Anders. Merrill and Fenris had no such files for either gender. So, at most, it lends weight to Isabela and Anders being bi options, but by no means the only ones.

[Roachbugg]

moilami wrote...

Ryzaki wrote...

Bekkael wrote...

Wow, lots of intolerance. Everyone has the right to their opinion, even if others find it offensive. That's my opinion anyway. =)

So it's okay if someone finds you fithy and disgusting and say so? You're not allowed to say anything in response to that? 

Now I agree no one should starts snarling like mad dogs but you certainly shouldn't smile and nod as someone says things about you that are untrue and hurtful. 

Actually you should just smile and not get agitated. It is just stupid to let someone get power over your feelings by words. Then, if a real physical fight is about to happen, that's another story and rogue tactics or whatever to deal with the situation come handy.

Actually if some one has the guile to offfend you, you by human nature have every right to become agitated. Say for instance some one were to walk up to me and say hay your gay go burn in hell that would earn them one of two things a left hook to the jaw or a serious amount scolding depending on my mood. 

But opinions are like a**holes everyones got one and the all stink

[Ryzaki]

moilami wrote...

What Bekkael said was that everyone has the right to their opinion, even if others find it offensive. That is very true. As much as some people want here, they still don't have any rights to become any sort of thought police. Sorry.

And if someone say you are filthy and disgusting you are naturally entitled to say your opinion of them - not saying it would be wise or intelligent to do though.

Taunt is taunt is taunt. Mobs get taunted.

I never said she couldn't say it. Just she should expect that people aren't going to laugh it off. 

Thought police? Seriously? 

And people saying things back to those that talked down to them is why many freedoms were won to begin with. It's only unwise or unintelligent when it's not done in a respectable manner. (Or if not done in arespectable manner you don't have the muscle to back it up). 

Edit: That optimist bubble is made of steel isn'******. 

Modifié par Ryzaki, 26 février 2011 - 08:24 .

[MorningBird]

ishmaeltheforsaken wrote...

Of course they're all bi. THE CAKE IS A BI!

There were some references in some files to kissmale and kissfemale for Isabela and Anders. Merrill and Fenris had no such files for either gender. So, at most, it lends weight to Isabela and Anders being bi options, but by no means the only ones.

Exactly.  In fact, I'm taking this as a good sign. All we need now are a few good media leaks, and soon everyone will no the truth.

(Hint: The truth is that everyone is bi.)

[elirian_19]

Ryzaki wrote...

elirian_19 wrote...

What's this about someone finding kiss scripts for Isabela and Anders that were gender specific but none for Merrill and Fenris? How can this be?? They're all bi!

THE CAKE IS A LIE!

Poor poor Sten. Never got any cake. 

And I told you lot from the beginning they weren't all bi.  

Though I did want Fenris.  I guess Anders won't be so bad as long as I take Templar spec. Might need to Holy Smite to use on Vengence to avoid being eaten during sexytimes.   

*points at new sig*

*runs off to sob in the corner with m!Hawke*

ishmaeltheforsaken wrote...

Of course they're all bi. THE CAKE IS A BI!

There
were some references in some files to kissmale and kissfemale for
Isabela and Anders. Merrill and Fenris had no such files for either
gender. So, at most, it lends weight to Isabela and Anders being bi
options, but by no means the only ones.

Really? Really? You're not just toying with my Hawke's fragile emotions?

*hope magically restored*

[Maria Caliban]

moilami wrote...

Actually you should just smile and not get agitated. It is just stupid to let someone get power over your feelings by words.

This from the guy who claims he's homophobic because some queer people disagreed with him in this thread.

[moilami]

Roachbugg wrote...

moilami wrote...

Ryzaki wrote...

Bekkael wrote...

Wow, lots of intolerance. Everyone has the right to their opinion, even if others find it offensive. That's my opinion anyway. =)

So it's okay if someone finds you fithy and disgusting and say so? You're not allowed to say anything in response to that? 

Now I agree no one should starts snarling like mad dogs but you certainly shouldn't smile and nod as someone says things about you that are untrue and hurtful. 

Actually you should just smile and not get agitated. It is just stupid to let someone get power over your feelings by words. Then, if a real physical fight is about to happen, that's another story and rogue tactics or whatever to deal with the situation come handy.

Actually if some one has the guile to offfend you, you by human nature have every right to become agitated. Say for instance some one were to walk up to me and say hay your gay go burn in hell that would earn them one of two things a left hook to the jaw or a serious amount scolding depending on my mood. 

But opinions are like a**holes everyones got one and the all stink

Power Play moar in the momma's basement.

[MorningBird]

elirian_19 wrote...

Really? Really? You're not just toying with my Hawke's fragile emotions?

*hope magically restored*

Really really.

[Safernya666]

Ohhh! I tend to like that! > If it's true... I WAS RIGHT ABOUT ANDERS! MWAHAHAHAHAHA!



*stop laughting like a maniac*



Well, we'll see, won't we? After all, it's only scripts, it doesn't mean anything at all. Nothing. At. All.



*smirk*



== Or maybe it does?



Anyway! I juste hope they will have wonderful personnalities like in Origins. I really liked Zevran's hidden good side, Leliana's creepiness and Alistair's cuteness. They all had something special and I really do hope DA2 will offer such deep stories, backgrounds and personnalities!

[mesmerizedish]

elirian_19 wrote...

ishmaeltheforsaken wrote...

Of course they're all bi. THE CAKE IS A BI!

There
were some references in some files to kissmale and kissfemale for Isabela and Anders. Merrill and Fenris had no such files for either gender. So, at most, it lends weight to Isabela and Anders being bi options, but by no means the only ones.

Really? Really? You're not just toying with my Hawke's fragile emotions?

*hope magically restored*

I'm not toying with your emotions Even that there are kissmale/female files for those two doesn't mean a whole bunch because those existed for both genders for Ashley and Kaiden but were never used. Of course, they WILL be used in DAII, because they're all bi.

But yeah, Merrill and Fenris's files aren't labeled at all, so they could be anything. Someone pointed out that for all anyone's able to tell, every single Fenris file there could be romance, proving that BioWare is making you make gay sex to advance the plot! *the sky falls*

Modifié par ishmaeltheforsaken, 26 février 2011 - 08:27 .

[Bekkael]

Ryzaki wrote...

elirian_19 wrote...

What's this about someone finding kiss scripts for Isabela and Anders that were gender specific but none for Merrill and Fenris? How can this be?? They're all bi!

THE CAKE IS A LIE!

Poor poor Sten. Never got any cake. 

And I told you lot from the beginning they weren't all bi.  

Though I did want Fenris.  I guess Anders won't be so bad as long as I take Templar spec. Might need to Holy Smite to use on Vengence to avoid being eaten during sexytimes.   

Bekkael wrote...

Of course not, but it just suddenly had the feel of mob violence. Did someone say someone else was filthy and disgusting? If so, I missed it. My default mode is diplomat/peacemaker, so sorry for attempting to mediate, it's the parent in me. I'll just stay on the sidelines in future.

Odd. I didn't feel any mob violence. Just people getting irritated. I've been the cause of it myself. 

And no the filthy and digusting was exaggerations on my part. I was exaggerating to make a point so to speak. 

You don't need to feel sorry. I just don't see much need for mediation is all. You don't need to go or anything I wasn't trying to drive you away. 

No worries. I was just offering to butt out, but I would much rather kiss and make-up, so *mwah*! I'm a lover, not a fighter. Drinks all around! *said in my best Jack Sparrow voice*

[mesmerizedish]

Maria Caliban wrote...

moilami wrote...

Actually you should just smile and not get agitated. It is just stupid to let someone get power over your feelings by words.

This from the guy who claims he's homophobic because some queer people disagreed with him in this thread.

I've been getting really good at just overlooking anything he posts. It's hard, what with my name being in his signature and all. I'm not particularly proud of letting myself get so upset about him, but the least he could have done is say I said what I actually said