Stardusk78 wrote...
T3hAnubis wrote...
I like FemHawke's VA more than the VA of MaleHawke and her default appearance looks good too. But I don't tend to Roleplay the opposite gender in any game unless it isn't my choice, i.e. FF13. I am unsure myself if I will play as FemHawke and want to know other guys' though on this.
If I do play as a female, thank the Maker there is Isabela, would feel even more weird romancing a male.
I play both, about 50/50. I play women because they are hot and they can have hot lesbo sex with Isabella and/or Leliana. I also have them do romances with normal male npcs as well because that is just like straight porn. One thing I can never bring myself to do is romancing a another guy AS a guy, i.e. male/male; I am too straight for that.

I don't understand why playing a video game in which your character has a gay relationship has any bearing on you. It sounds more like you're repelled by being involved, however tenuously, in male/male romance situations than anything. I mean, your straightness doesn't really have any bearing on anything that you do in the game. I'm not picking on you or anything, I'm just saying this in general; I have a friend that does the same thing and I always ask does that mean that he doesn't like the guy in the porn he watches to be handsome w/a big ****. Part of our ability to derive enjoyment from this kind of voyeurism comes from appreciating the attractiveness of everyone involved. If that's the case, I'm not sure why male/male romances are difficult for straight people to handle, particularly if they like girl/girl stuff.
But now I'm about to break out into some social theory stuff which means I've spent too long working on my thesis and not enough playing Tactics Ogre and MvC3.
My two favorite romances in DA were Zevran (as a gay relationship) and then Morrigan. Alistair was kind of annoying, I despised Leliana, and sadly couldn't romance Sten, male or female.
I dunno. I just don't get why people have these weird existential issues with things they do in video games. I could see if it was something truly gruesome like Beautiful Escape: Dungeoneer, but this is just a mass of pixels made to look like it's kissing another mass of pixels. There's no bearing on my identity or reality whatsoever. It's kind of interesting to me that people identify to this extent with games, though. I guess it's good that players can do this degree of self-insertion.
But yeah, I like FemHawke, I like MaleHawke, I'll probably do both of them.
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