Elfman wrote...
I'm actually surprised people think it's weird. I'm straight and I think I actually prefer playing as a woman, probably because I'm about as camp as a tent, and I'm importing my female City Elf. Plus, let's face it, FemHawke is pretty hot.
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And my male characters look like they don't have half a brain cell or REALLY ugly.
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And Male Hawke is voiced by that ****face, Vaughn. No offence to the VA, just now when I hear it I think YOU RAPED SHIANNI! Die.
I agree with that last bit. What bothers me is that he's voiced by him....and you can romance Merrill....true Hawke is waaaay different from Vaughn but still......*shudders*

Anyways, about this topic:
I don't think its in any way strange for a man to play as a woman in a game. I mean, its just a game.
My husband is a fellow gamer and in ME, ME2, and DAO, he has played both male and female characters. He simply says that he finds it boring that most games out there have a male protagonist and very few have a female protagonist. I'm the same way. It's nice to be able to play a game and have a badass female character to play as. And something Bioware does well: Making their female protaginists really badass.
Now, personally, I usually play as a female unless I'm forced to do otherwise. And even if I'm forced to play as a male character, I still enjoy the game quite a bit(Assassin's Creed, Legend of Zelda, DMC, etc). But if the option is given, I typically go for the female. Mainly because if I create the character's appearance, I'm far better at making a woman than a man, to be honest.