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[Dr. wonderful]

ishmaeltheforsaken wrote...

Swanea wrote...

Nor will I date anyone who believes in religion I don't believe in.

This is a surprisingly common viewpoint. When I first came out to my parents and told them about my girlfriend, their first response was "But she's Jewish, right?"

I laugh harder then I should.

Oh god.

[Maria Caliban]

Gavinthelocust wrote...

Taleroth wrote...

ishmaeltheforsaken wrote...

Truth. It's actually how you can anticipate companions. If you can have sex with it, you can fight with it. Eventually.

So I'm getting Conner's Desire Demon as a companion?

I think I just heard Maria squeeing.

I do not squee.

And I'm hoping for Sebastion's desire spirit or the one in the Mage's tower. The Redcliffe one was a bit of a p****y.

[falconlord5]

ishmaeltheforsaken wrote...

Swanea wrote...

Nor will I date anyone who believes in religion I don't believe in.

This is a surprisingly common viewpoint. When I first came out to my parents and told them about my girlfriend, their first response was "But she's Jewish, right?"

Better response than some get.

Man, the stories I hear from some of my university pals... *shudder*.

[Maria Caliban]

ishmaeltheforsaken wrote...

This is a surprisingly common viewpoint. When I first came out to my parents and told them about my girlfriend, their first response was "But she's Jewish, right?"

Was she?

[Dr. wonderful]

Maria Caliban wrote...

Gavinthelocust wrote...

Taleroth wrote...

ishmaeltheforsaken wrote...

Truth. It's actually how you can anticipate companions. If you can have sex with it, you can fight with it. Eventually.

So I'm getting Conner's Desire Demon as a companion?

I think I just heard Maria squeeing.

I do not squee.

And I'm hoping for Sebastion's desire spirit or the one in the Mage's tower. The Redcliffe one was a bit of a p****y.

isn't the tower one married?

I heard she and the Templar is on their second honeymoon.

[mesmerizedish]

Maria Caliban wrote...

ishmaeltheforsaken wrote...

This
is a surprisingly common viewpoint. When I first came out to my parents
and told them about my girlfriend, their first response was "But she's
Jewish, right?"

Was she?

Sadly, no. The only other Jew I knew in my entire dormitory was a guy and a complete tool.

Dr. wonderful wrote...

isn't the tower one married?

I heard she and the Templar is on their second honeymoon.

It's a desire demon. The only thing better than married sex is divorced sex.

[Teemu733]

For all those worried -- do not fret, not all companions are bi!

Aveline, Varric, Bethany, and Carver are straight!

[thedistortedchild]

Dr. wonderful wrote...

Oh for the love of hentai...


All LI are Bi.

Anders is Bi
Sebastion is Bi
Merril is Bi
Bela is Bi
Fenris is Bi

ALL of them are Bi! There I spoiled it for you, Klace just got done a walkthrough with a GayHake Rogue with Fenris.



Can we give it a rest!?

???

When was sebastion confirmed???

[mesmerizedish]

Teemu733 wrote...

For all those worried -- do not fret, not all companions are bi!

Aveline, Varric, Bethany, and Carver are straight!

Actually, we don't know if any of that is true

[Dr. wonderful]

thedistortedchild wrote...

Dr. wonderful wrote...

Oh for the love of hentai...


All LI are Bi.

Anders is Bi
Sebastion is Bi
Merril is Bi
Bela is Bi
Fenris is Bi

ALL of them are Bi! There I spoiled it for you, Klace just got done a walkthrough with a GayHake Rogue with Fenris.



Can we give it a rest!?

???

When was sebastion confirmed???

He wasn't.

I read it in the Game Guide.

[OmegaBlue0231]

ishmaeltheforsaken wrote...

Teemu733 wrote...

For all those worried -- do not fret, not all companions are bi!

Aveline, Varric, Bethany, and Carver are straight!

Actually, we don't know if any of that is true

True, as a matter of fact every character in the game could be bi.

[thedistortedchild]

Dr. wonderful wrote...
He wasn't.

I read it in the Game Guide.

Thanks! 
Now I just have to stop thinking of the kid in the neverending story every time I hear his voice...

[Maria Caliban]

ishmaeltheforsaken wrote...

Sadly, no. The only other Jew I knew in my entire dormitory was a guy and a complete tool.

That's unfortunate. I ran the numbers and the chances of you finding a lesbian or bisexual Jewish girl around your age are very low unless you live in New York or Miami. I can't imagine how you'd manage it prior to the Internet.

[mesmerizedish]

Maria Caliban wrote...

ishmaeltheforsaken wrote...

Sadly, no. The only other Jew I knew in my entire dormitory was a guy and a complete tool.

That's unfortunate. I ran the numbers and the chances of you finding a lesbian or bisexual Jewish girl around your age are very low unless you live in New York or Miami. I can't imagine how you'd manage it prior to the Internet.

A lot of Jews in Miami? Really? But I don't care. That was years ago, I think my parents have given up. My last girlfriend was half-black, which caused something of a stir at Christmas

[Taleroth]

ishmaeltheforsaken wrote...

Maria Caliban wrote...

ishmaeltheforsaken wrote...

Sadly, no. The only other Jew I knew in my entire dormitory was a guy and a complete tool.

That's unfortunate. I ran the numbers and the chances of you finding a lesbian or bisexual Jewish girl around your age are very low unless you live in New York or Miami. I can't imagine how you'd manage it prior to the Internet.

A lot of Jews in Miami? Really? But I don't care. That was years ago, I think my parents have given up. My last girlfriend was half-black, which caused something of a stir at Christmas

Awww.  Sorry to hear that.  My sister apparently has a black girlfriend and I didn't see anyone bat an eye at the last gathering.  This is Texas.

I always get surprised to hear discrimination still goes on.

Modifié par Taleroth, 06 mars 2011 - 06:48 .

[wulfsturm]

Oh, you lesbians and your familial troubles. Whatever shall we do with you.

[Maria Caliban]

Christmas?

It's good to know that's not an issue for them. I tend to value my mother's approval a great deal.

[nubbers666]

you want proof if there lying or not buy the game and play it to find out problem solved

[mesmerizedish]

Maria Caliban wrote...

Christmas?

It's good to know that's not an issue for them. I tend to value my mother's approval a great deal.

My Dad's family are Southern Quakers. He converted when he married my mom, but we still celebrate it with them.

Taleroth wrote...

Awww.  Sorry to hear that.  My sister
apparently has a black girlfriend and I didn't see anyone bat an eye at
the last gathering.  This is Texas.

I always get surprised to hear discrimination still goes on.

My grandmother (dad's mom) came to visit us once when I was in high school. I grew up in Western Maryland which is not... racially diverse? She'd been there for a few days when she called me into the sunroom where she was sitting in the recliner and said to me "You don't have much of a problem with the blacks here, do you?"

Modifié par ishmaeltheforsaken, 06 mars 2011 - 06:57 .

[Taleroth]

ishmaeltheforsaken wrote...

My grandmother (dad's mom) came to visit us once when I was in high school. I grew up in Western Maryland which is not... racially diverse? She'd been there for a few days when she called me into the sunroom where she was sitting in the recliner and said to me "You don't have much of a problem with the blacks here, do you?"

That's grandmothers, though.  My grandmother once said to me "You can't be atheist, you're too nice."

[pallascedar]

jatman wrote...

Perfecti0nist wrote...

wulfsturm wrote...

Tielis wrote...
It's not really all that strange to be heterosexual and only want to be with heterosexual people, you know. 

No you're right, it's not: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homophobe

How is she a homophobe? She just said that she prefers to have sex with heterosexual people, rather than bisexual. It's not homophobia, it's preference.

I get this! im gay but my female friend has told me she worries sometimes about other girls showing interest in her bf. even if he doesnt reciprocate it makes her uncomfortable. Then she found out he was bi. Adds a whole other kettle of fish. Some peopel just prefer it if they date someone who only likes one gender. and it can be the same for s/s couples too. As my example shows, this is for good reason, even if they dont act on it. So try not to through "homophobe" around too much. xxxx

This is called Biphobia. It's bad. Just like homophobia is bad. Biphobia can come from gay, straight and even Bi people.

Modifié par pallascedar, 06 mars 2011 - 07:00 .

[mesmerizedish]

Taleroth wrote...

ishmaeltheforsaken wrote...

My grandmother (dad's mom) came to visit us once when I was in high school. I grew up in Western Maryland which is not... racially diverse? She'd been there for a few days when she called me into the sunroom where she was sitting in the recliner and said to me "You don't have much of a problem with the blacks here, do you?"

That's grandmothers, though.  My grandmother once said to me "You can't be atheist, you're too nice."

What's really sad is that her husband, who died before I was old enough to remember him, was truly what I would call "colorblind." I don't get how she can have such ideas ingrained in her head when she was married to someone who crusaded for racial equality as a judge in the South.

[Thestral]

The biphobia in this thread [from any source, heterosexual, homosexual, whatever] makes me sad. </3

Modifié par Thestral, 06 mars 2011 - 07:45 .

[jatman]

ishmaeltheforsaken wrote...

Maria Caliban wrote...

ishmaeltheforsaken wrote...

Sadly, no. The only other Jew I knew in my entire dormitory was a guy and a complete tool.

That's unfortunate. I ran the numbers and the chances of you finding a lesbian or bisexual Jewish girl around your age are very low unless you live in New York or Miami. I can't imagine how you'd manage it prior to the Internet.

A lot of Jews in Miami? Really? But I don't care. That was years ago, I think my parents have given up. My last girlfriend was half-black, which caused something of a stir at Christmas

 
That sucks for you that your family are that picky, I suppose it could be worse though. At least your parents didnt get down on you for being gay. Thats pretty cool

[jatman]

pallascedar wrote...

jatman wrote...

Perfecti0nist wrote...

wulfsturm wrote...

Tielis wrote...
It's not really all that strange to be heterosexual and only want to be with heterosexual people, you know. 

No you're right, it's not: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homophobe

How is she a homophobe? She just said that she prefers to have sex with heterosexual people, rather than bisexual. It's not homophobia, it's preference.

I get this! im gay but my female friend has told me she worries sometimes about other girls showing interest in her bf. even if he doesnt reciprocate it makes her uncomfortable. Then she found out he was bi. Adds a whole other kettle of fish. Some peopel just prefer it if they date someone who only likes one gender. and it can be the same for s/s couples too. As my example shows, this is for good reason, even if they dont act on it. So try not to through "homophobe" around too much. xxxx

This is called Biphobia. It's bad. Just like homophobia is bad. Biphobia can come from gay, straight and even Bi people.

Even so I dont think that someone not feeling coimfortable dating a bi person is biphobic. I can totally see why. My friend i mentioned is very live and let live and supportive of gay and bi people. But it is possiblke to be a bit worried someone else will attept to take your guy/girl away. Not sayingh a bi person is more likely to respond to those advances, just that the advances being able to come from both genders could set peoples teeth to grate. Which I donmt think is phobic in any sense, just cautious against ANYONE flirting with your partner and  just not being overjoyed that the amount of potential people trying it on is now possibly more.