Maria Caliban wrote...
I have no problem with all the characters being bi. I have no problem with the characters being straight, bisexual, or gay if that's how the writers see them. I have no problem with BioWare writing a game with no romances or only straight romances.
Oh, obviously, that's not what I wish for, but I don't believe BioWare is obliged to give me a same-sex romance in every game.
I would rather not see a character be straight in one playthrough and gay in another, however.
Understandable. I don't necessarily agree, but I understand nevertheless.
Maria Caliban wrote...
Remember that when I argued that the ME 2 style of character outfits was a good thing, I said it was because I liked visually distinctive companions that dressed as they would dress. Jack's outfit in ME 2 may not have been realistic in a vacuum, but it was an excellent expression of the character.
Some people weren't happy that Jack talks about sleeping with a couple, suggesting she's bisexual, but isn't interested in FemShep. Yes, well, you don't have to be bisexual to sleep with a member of your own sex. Especially when it comes to someone who is young, mentally unstable, and has no friends or family.
Only saying anything here because I feel weird leaving parts of your post out completely or responding to a section that includes a bunch of stuff irrelevant to what I have to say. So, meh. ME2 meh. Meh all around.
Maria Caliban wrote...
I appreciate that Merrill is attracted to women. I like having the choice. This makes me happy, no doubt about it.
At the same time, I'd be sad if she was simply written as a straight woman and had her gender toggle removed.
I don't believe that's what's been done. Rather, I think Merrill's been written as a woman, with an appropriate template applied on top of that, one way or the other. I think whatever depth may be lost from having the plot not care what gender the PC is can be made up for in other ways, and I trust the writers to handle it appropriately.
Maria Caliban wrote...
People have said that sexual orientation is not part of a character. That's simply not true. Leliana's romantic relationship with Marjolaine was important to who she was. She didn't just look up to Marjolaine, she loved her. I would be horrified if Sheryl said, "If you play a female Warden, they were lovers, but if you play a male one, they were just friends."
Sexual orientation is a part of a character, but not universally. Leliana's relationship with Marjolaine is vital to who she is. *spoiler*
Anders's relationship with Karl is important as well. Merrill doesn't need to have that relationship with Marethari (for example). There's leeway when it comes to characters whose stories and pasts don't feature sexuality as a major component. Merrill's orientation is irrelevant to what we know of her so far, and it will likely stay that way. Sexuality
can be important to a character, but that needn't be so. Again, I trust the writers to make it work.
Maria Caliban wrote...
Morrigan was defined by her sexual orientation. When Leliana looks at her, she becomes uncomfortable, yet she aggressively seeks out Sten. It's very obvious that she uses her attractiveness to seduce and use men. It's part of her role as a femme fatale. Yes, it would work for a bisexual character, but if she had to be a lesbian when I played femWarden, I would miss part of the character.
My response is similar to mine to what you said about Leliana. With Morrigan, her sexuality is important to her character. Her use (and abuse) of men, as she was taught by Flemeth, is important to who she is. A "subjective" approach to Morrigan's or Leliana's sexualities wouldn't have worked for all the reasons you've mentioned. But it CAN work for Merrill, for whom sexuality is likely relevant
only insofar as her status as an LI.
I would say that same about Alistair. I think Alistair could very easily have been a bisexually-romanceable companion of subjective sexuality. He wasn't. But I think it could have worked, because it wasn't important to his personal story that he be straight, gay, or bi.
I agree with you as far as a "subjective" approach not working universally. Leliana was bisexual (or a lesbian who happens to fall in love with a male Warden, if you prefer). But (and I'm not sure if you're saying this isn't true), I really think that in some circumstances, it
can work, and it can work well. The writers are very good, and they know that this isn't something they can just BS their way through. I also know that you know this better than I do.
In the end, it boils down to looking at a character and deciding if sex is important. If yes, run with it, like Isabela. If no, run the other way. It's
okay, from a writing standpoint, to make Merrill's sexual orientation subjective, because Merrill's sexual orientation
is not otherwise important.
[EDIT] For quote fail.
Modifié par ishmaeltheforsaken, 06 mars 2011 - 10:02 .