TallBearNC wrote...
Sir Jools wrote...
kylecouch wrote...
BobSmith101 wrote...
Razaroh wrote...
No, they're elves. They already have a race barrier to overcome, would gender be such big a deal in comparison? It's not like in real life where everyone is the same but with a different coat of paint.
Think Tali's romance, how she gushes about F!Shepard up until 'It's too bad you're a woman.'
I really wanted to do Tali as a FemShep, but I respect her rights as an independent character to refuse. It seems that there are two opposing views here.
1. It's my game I should be able to do whatever the hell I like. Stuff is only here to make my fantasies come true.
2. The characters have their own wills and are not puppets. Making everyone Bi will damage the believability of the setting.
Did I sum that up ok ?
Jackpot sir...I happen to be in the second camp...but yes...thats is basicly what this thread is about.
Camp 1 is actually unviable. Because if it was, I would have killed Alistair after 5 minutes of forcibly having him in my party, I would have blackmailed Moradin into violating and killing Branka in front of Oghren, and I would have killed the Tranquil at Ostagar on spot just because he irritated me. And Loghain too, since he might as well have been wearing a "I'M THE EVIL GUY" t-shirt.
In other words, these kind of games are there to weave a pre-made story, therefore there is only so much freedom of choice and action, including who is a fling option and who is not. There are limitations inherent to the medium, let alone business-driven limitation regarding how much time bioware was willing to put into allowing players to romance anything that "breathes" in their game.
camp 1 is unviable FOR YOU. It's not just unviable. It is a VERY valid state of mind and gaming. If it's not for you, then say it's not for you. What you said above is what YOU, and some others would do.
Caps saves the day again. I'm not talking about being straight or gay or whatever. I'm not questioning the state of mind or "state of gaming".
I'm rationally talking about putting infinite possibilities into a videogame, which is what many people are actually advocating. The whole "I play games because they allow me to do whatever I want" attitude can't exist. As I already pointed out, games have limitations, due to the medium, due to their background story, due to physical reasons, due to marketing reasons, and to many more factors.
Games can only make some fantasies come true, and not all of them. Mods will help some people live fantasies that were not in the original game, fanfiction some others. A player mind and dreams will fill the gaps, but they can't pretend a company (which is, you know, like, a business...) to include all possible player fantasies in one game. Unless players are willing to wait until the year 2321 for its release.
The ultimate option is that a player started modding or actually made it into the gaming industry and had his own game published, shaped accordingly to his own fantasies (altho this doesn't quite happen, because even big companies and developers have to come down back to Earth and cope with market timing, business solutions, etc etc etc).