Edit: Stupid top. It's always my silly posts with no context that make it up here. Oh well: here's Anders smirking to make everyone feel better:
Modifié par highcastle, 22 mai 2011 - 12:45 .
Modifié par highcastle, 22 mai 2011 - 12:45 .
dpMeggers wrote...
Can I just say, once again, how fantastic this thread is? We can have a debate without it devolving into flame wars. We're civil to each other. We can discuss things on the internet without the shield of anonymity making everyone into jerkfaces. We can accept that other people can have different opinions.
So thank you, Anders thread, for allowing me to believe that humanity isn't 100% doomed.
The difference is that those are things people can change. Anders cannot stop being an abomination. It's more like, say, dating someone with HIV and constantly making them feel awful and giving them **** for having had unprotected sex. I mean, sure, you could make it your life's mission to make sure they know unprotected sex is the worst thing ever and they regret that decision, but at the end of the day nothing you say will change it. Why would you be with a person if you are so strongly opposed to some immutable aspect of them?Ryzaki wrote...
By that logic telling someone who does drugs and you love them all the time is essentially saying their wrong because you want them to stop. I disagree about defining. He choose to let it define him. It didn't have too. He was weak and decided to rely on a supernatural being to accomplish his dreams instead of standing on his own. Similar to me to people I know who rely on drugs for happiness because they don't think they can manage it on their own.
By that logic someone who is in a relationship with someone who cuts themselvesand tells them that they shouldn't do that. That its wrong. Is saying the person as a whole is wrong. Which...isn't the case. The action itself doesn't condemn the person automaticaly. Justice and Anders are not the same being to me. Never will be.
ipgd wrote...
The difference is that those are things people can change. Anders cannot stop being an abomination. It's more like, say, dating someone with HIV and constantly making them feel awful and giving them **** for having had unprotected sex. I mean, sure, you could make it your life's mission to make sure they know unprotected sex is the worst thing ever and they regret that decision, but at the end of the day nothing you say will change it. Why would you be with a person if you are so strongly opposed to some immutable aspect of them?
Modifié par Ryzaki, 22 mai 2011 - 01:07 .
Ryzaki wrote...
ipgd wrote...
The difference is that those are things people can change. Anders cannot stop being an abomination. It's more like, say, dating someone with HIV and constantly making them feel awful and giving them **** for having had unprotected sex. I mean, sure, you could make it your life's mission to make sure they know unprotected sex is the worst thing ever and they regret that decision, but at the end of the day nothing you say will change it. Why would you be with a person if you are so strongly opposed to some immutable aspect of them?
We don't know if Anders can't stop being an abomination.
We do know he can choose not to listen to Justice. And indeed can resist him for a time. (Stopping him from killing Ella, joining Hawke to side with the templars)
So again I'm not seeing it as a immutable aspect of him.
It's inside of him but he can choose to follow it willingly.
So it's not like giving someone lip about HIV because the HIV doesn't talk to them and encourage them to do things that they can choose to say "no" too.
You could also be an AIDS denialist and encourage him to stop taking his meds and then be surprised when he does and dies, I guess?Ryzaki wrote...
We don't know if Anders can't stop being an abomination. Not enough information to tell. Sia brought up something interesting about Rivian witches summoning spirits? or demons? and letting them use their bodies. Yet there is no mention of a mass outbreak of abominations. It is possible they have a way to either completely control it or undo it at will.
We do know he can choose not to listen to Justice. And indeed can resist him for a time. (Stopping him from killing Ella, joining Hawke to side with the templars) So it's not like giving someone lip about HIV because the HIV doesn't talk to them and encourage them to do things that they can choose to say "no" to.
So again I'm not seeing it as a immutable aspect of him.
It's inside of him but he can choose to follow it willingly. THe fact that he can say no (hijack nowithstanding) is what solidifes it as non-immutable in my mind.
That said let's agree to disagree. I don't see either of us changing each others mind.
Edit: And it sounds like I'm trying to get the final word in but I'm not. I just want tomake my postion clear is all. Sorry if it sounds like I'm being all 'STOP TALKING NOW THAT I'VE HAD MY SAY." that's not the intention.
Modifié par Ryzaki, 22 mai 2011 - 01:20 .
nekhbet wrote...
Oh my gods does someone know when does this scene trigger? Dump Anders and go for Isabela and then what? Or can you somehow do Isabela without actually dumping Anders before? I just wonder... where does that ignorant comment from Anders come from, lol.
Ryzaki wrote...
I'm gonna step out now before I say something I'll regret.
Modifié par Upsettingshorts, 22 mai 2011 - 01:16 .
I've written about this before and the way I basically see it is that Anders "anthropomorphizes" Justice, partly out of the simplicity of explanation and partly out of a desire to absolve himself of the blame for his actions. I think he mainly manifests as a sense of cognitive dissonance, and because Anders/Justice is informed enough to know which opinions probably originate from where, attributes them to their respective differing "aspects" of himself, but there's only one brain in there.The phrases "Justice disagrees with my obsession with you." to me means on some level they communicate of each other and are aware of each others minds.
Modifié par ipgd, 22 mai 2011 - 01:22 .
ipgd wrote...
To touch on this:I've written about this before and the way I basically see it is that Anders "anthropomorphizes" Justice, partly out of the simplicity of explanation and partly out of a desire to absolve himself of the blame for his actions. I think he mainly manifests as a sense of cognitive dissonance, and because Anders/Justice is informed enough to know which opinions probably originate from where, attributes them to their respective differing "aspects" of himself, but there's only one brain in there.The phrases "Justice disagrees with my obsession with you." to me means on some level they communicate of each other and are aware of each others minds.
Modifié par Ryzaki, 22 mai 2011 - 01:39 .
Modifié par Upsettingshorts, 22 mai 2011 - 01:38 .
Modifié par Ryzaki, 22 mai 2011 - 01:40 .
highcastle wrote...
Of course, I think we disagree on the underlying issue here: you disagree with Anders' uncompromising cause, whereas I'm sitting here saying "Viva la revolution, baby!"
dpMeggers wrote...
So thank you, Anders thread, for allowing me to believe that humanity isn't 100% doomed.
Modifié par Ashwraith, 22 mai 2011 - 01:41 .
And you don't think that was totally uncalled for?Upsettingshorts wrote...
You mean you don't regret most of your posts already?Ryzaki wrote...
I'm gonna step out now before I say something I'll regret.
Ryzaki wrote...
Riiiight.
legbamel wrote...
And you don't think that was totally uncalled for?
Modifié par Upsettingshorts, 22 mai 2011 - 01:43 .
Modifié par Ryzaki, 22 mai 2011 - 01:45 .
That's the basis of my preference for the rivalmance: I'm fighting to preserve as much Anders as I can. He's going to die. He wants to die. He's miserable and falling apart and has been for years. But I don't have to be cruel to rival him or rub his face in his mistakes (regardless of other people's interpretations of various lines) and I would rather he preserve what he can of himself while he can than be subsumed by this creature that he admits he irretrievably made a part of himself as a bad decision. And the angst!ipgd wrote...
[Major snip for space and repetition]
You can argue that it's better he die with his individuality than his sanity, but he can't be saved.
That was not a literal statement. I meant they shared the same "wavelength" of thought.Then of course is the thing with spirits not needing brains (actual physical brains I mean) to have personalities and such. (Like the spirit of Valor in the Fade along with the demons). If he didn't need a brain then why would he need one in Anders' body?
I don't agree that he needs to be saved. He'll be sort of a composite creature, but a whole one nonetheless.legbamel wrote...
That's the basis of my preference for the rivalmance: I'm fighting to preserve as much Anders as I can. He's going to die. He wants to die. He's miserable and falling apart and has been for years. But I don't have to be cruel to rival him or rub his face in his mistakes (regardless of other people's interpretations of various lines) and I would rather he preserve what he can of himself while he can than be subsumed by this creature that he admits he irretrievably made a part of himself as a bad decision. And the angst!ipgd wrote...
[Major snip for space and repetition]
You can argue that it's better he die with his individuality than his sanity, but he can't be saved.
Ryzaki wrote...
So being rude is totally called for because you're gonna assume I'm going to take it rudely?
Ryzaki wrote...
Thanks for saving me the effort of explaining myself. Since of course its perfectly fine to be rude because someone "might" take it wrong.
ipgd wrote...
That was not a literal statement. I meant they shared the same "wavelength" of thought.
Modifié par Upsettingshorts, 22 mai 2011 - 01:49 .