Tyrium wrote...
highcastle wrote...
Yeah, I figured as much. But there's so much Anders-can't-be-bi-in-my-game-that's-icky outside this thread, I think my hackles snap up automatically. Some part of my brain goes, them's fighting words and then I start typing out manifestos on sexuality and...I'll stop now.
Hmm...playing cards, playing cards. I think my Hawke would be a Joker, personally. A wrench in everybody's carefully laid plans and always trying to liven things up. Anders...Anders is a whole hand. Aces and eights, baby.
Fair enough. Anders is straight in my canon play, but not because "bi is icky" or any other such nonsense. In fact, Fenders and Nanders are two of my favourite fanfic pairings (they are some VERY attractive men). It's just that I saw him as straight in Awakening, and I can play DA2 as a female where nothing contradicts that, and it allows me consistency. If you interpret him as bisexual, in DA2 or Awakening, that's your perogative. Again, nothing contradicts that. I think it is a matter of interpretation, but both are valid, and neither is contradicted by the text.
Part of me wishes we did have the Karl conversation as a fem!hawke, because it is an interesting one, and I'd still have romanced him, of course. But another part of me is also glad we don't, because I do like the interpretation being possible. To me, information that cannot be learned by a character, regardless of dialogue and plot choices, is not canon in that character's run, which is why I don't count Karl having been Anders' first as canon for a female Hawke. If you do, that's fine by me. Again, nothing to contradict it. But playing as a female Hawke, there is nothing to contradict him being straight in that run either.
EDIT:
I do understand most people on here think he's always bi (or pansexual), so please understand I'm not attacking that position. I can certainly see the evidence for it, and I fully support that interpretation as being a valid one. It's just not the interpretation I have for my canon Hawke. It doesn't stop me enjoying fanfic where Anders is with a female Hawke and is bi, and it certainly doesn't stop me enjoying Anders slash, it's just not the interpretation in my canon run.
Missed this because I was sleeping. Or trying to, anyway. I'm just a little confused by it. The writers have said (someone with more search bar magic than me please find the quote; I'm still too coffee deprived and sleep-addled to be more effective at anything than ogling pretty colors right now) that Anders is not constrained by gender when it comes to attraction. Karl is his first whether he tells you about it or not. It happened. That he doesn't mention it doesn't transport him to a land of being straight.
Even if you don't want to think about Karl, there's the Justice aspect to consider. While their relationship isn't sexual, Anders willingly and knowingly let a male spirit cohabitate in his own body. That's...beyond intimate.
The reason why I'm bringing this up is because sexual orientation isn't really a matter of interpretation. People are who they are. Anders' isn't even the most defining part of his character, but it
is there. And he's one of the better representations of pansexuality in games (which I differentiate from bisexuality in that Anders isn't so much attracted to both genders equally as attracted to people
regardless of gender). To say he came across straight to you is just a little on the offensive side because it plays into the stereotypes surrounding different sexualities. He wasn't
flaming and lisping or hitting on
everything that moves, so he must be straight.
I doubt that's how you meant for it to come across, but these stereotypes and such are out there, and they drive me personally absolutely batty. I'm not trying to attack anyone personally here, but I think there are misconceptions out there that should be clarified.