It's been a very long time since I posted here but I thought some of you might be interested in knowing about the gloriousness that was my straight husband turning gay for Anders.
It started with Awakenings, when his dwarf Warden offered to lie to the templars to help Anders escape, and Anders still showed up to help fight the darkspawn. He said, "This guy is awesome," and Anders became a permanent member of his party.
Cue DA2, where I had to work REALLY REALLY hard not to spoil a single thing about the game beforehand. Hence, when he met Anders, he had no idea that Anders had merged with Justice. When he found out, he declared Anders to be "badass," and to my great surprise, dove for the first flirt option like he was afraid it might disappear. He then declared that he was going to romance Anders because he was just too cool.
It got a bit rocky around the end of Act 2, when hubby got a little grumpy because he was sure that part would be awesome in an Isabela romance, but Act 3 made up for it. He was playing a Chantry-hating, anti-templar mage, and when the Chantry went KABOOM, well, you should have seen his face. He then became baffled at the game for seeming to suggest that he ought to be angry at Anders and kept looking for the dialogue option that said, "Dude, that was GREAT!" He kept asking why on earth Anders wouldn't have told him what he was doing. When I pointed out that he didn't want Hawke to get in any trouble, he said, "I know. He's so sweet."
I found the whole thing adorable because he's so straight IRL, but he just wanted a claim on what he thought was the coolest character in the game. And it's incredibly awesome to be able to share my Anders love with my husband.
Anyway, I thought some of you might appreciate the gloriousness of the whole thing.