Sialater wrote...
SurelyForth wrote...
DreamerM wrote...
I just finished my first playthrough with my!Hawke.
I spared Anders's life. I didn't think I was going to, but I did. I sent him away, but after a few difficult sans-healer battles getting to the Gallows, I decided to let him rejoin the group when he showed up at the Circle. Although I didn't really want to look at him.
I did break up with him then, though.
And yet, he stayed with me in the epilogue. I wonder what would be going through his mind, slogging around after a woman who said, in pretty explicit terms, that she wasn't going to be #2 in his life, wouldn't forgive him, and didn't love him anymore.
He says he couldn't be with you if you weren't going to support his Mage Freedom Weather Underground Revolution thing. I wonder...
The staying with you is a glitch. I think he stays with you sometimes even if he's dead.
Although, if it wasn't...that would make a heartbreaking story. *contemplates*
Hey... now... I have enough plot bunnies without y'all suggesting more. 
Rejected!Anders is something I enjoy perhaps a little too much. Whether he's dumped at the end of the game or spurned (especially spurned for Fenris), there's something about that pathos that hits me right in the sweet spot, especially because he secretly kind of wants it that way. For an Anders who is completely unromanced, I can actually imagine him being kind of relieved Hawke didn't pick him, by act three. Rejected after the game, though... that's another story altogether, and an interesting one.
This may be my Fengirl friend's influence. She was a big fan of Anders in Awakening, but ended up falling into the Fenris trap in DA2, and she's one of the "Hawke's lines in the relationship make Hawke + Anders sooo unhealthy" types. So while I'm reading my cute little Anders + Hawke fics, I gush with her about lonely Anders.
For DreamerM's little after-game adventure, I can picture it happening this way: the companions start off in a big group, fleeing the city together, and one by one they split off, until Anders and Hawke are just all that's left. And Hawke is half-expecting Anders to take the hint and leave, but he has literally nowhere else to go, and so clings to this idea of Hawke. Sort of an "I'll stay with her until I find somewhere else to go, someone else to go with," but, let's face it, that isn't going to happen. And Hawke feels kind of almost... guilty for not killing him, because that might have been kinder to both of them, at this point.
Of course, for me, at the end of every horrible Anders angst story where he doesn't end up with Hawke (or dead), there's an offscreen Warden waiting to pick up the pieces, or at least offer some psychological help. Because I can't tear a character open that horribly without having some means to sew them back together.