snarkycleric wrote...
I don't know if I sound contradicting but with DA2 it seems by having a friendship with them you encourage their questionable believes to be ok. I mean I don't like Templars but I don't think getting rid of them it's the answer to the problem. I feel like I'm helping him by protecting him of himself? Ugh....so complicated my head hurts......
No, I get what you mean. I just find it difficult to strike that balance - I was going to play rivalmance because my assumption was that that would be to discourage him from seeking vengeance, but so far as I can tell agreeing with his views seems to up the friendship no matter what, so...
Yeah I know. The rivalry path is a painful one. When I try to talk to him, he's like "I don't want to argue right now, let's move on..." and I'm like....Anders, I have a plan, give in!!! lol It's pretty hard. With him it feels so much easier to be friends, versus Fenris is easier to be rivals/friends with him. Ugh, I don't know what I'm gonna do. Since nobody really has an answer I'm gonna try doing the rivalry path. I'll have to go back 4hrs in my game but I'm just gonna do it. I messed it up with Anders earlier since he keeps floating around the neutral path. But I have to keep a more defined view for the rivalry to really take effect.

TeenZombie wrote...
At the moment I can't really metagame,
since my character is a roguish, fun loving, sarcastic but good hearted
mage, and she would NEVER side with Templars, unless it was obvious
that they were on the side of good and the mage in question was evil.
So she's going friendship with Anders, even though I know that rivalry
might be better for him in the end. The problem is that choosing those
options would be directly against what my Hawke believes...yeah, this is
tough. I have a feeling that what Flemeth says on Sundermount is
especially prophetic and poignant for an Anders romance.
And, on
another note, I would pay good money to have a full description of the
night that Anders and Isabela met in the Pearl. LOL.
OMG me too!!! It's a hard one because my rogue Lady Hawke loves her sister and I originally wanted to support mages but it seems you can't side with mages and have a rivavlry path with Anders....I'm at a loss but I'm gonna try it. Except since I was almost done with Act 1, I'm going back like 4hrs in my game to properly set it up so I was like I don't know I dont want to side with Templars.
And yes I'm glad I wasn't the only one freaking out at Flemeth's "advice". I was like Anders is gonna go crazy and die isn't he?!?!?! We can't be friends!!!!!



lol.....I should make my life easier and go for the friendship path but if something bad happens, I'm gonna feel all crappy. I hate tragedies and sad things. I mean I was feeling bad for my warden when she found out she was gonna have a short life and die in a ditch somewhere in the deep roads or that she can't have babies. I was all sad panda for the rest of the day. I mean I'm so like that I even avoided Ultimate Sacrifice because I didn't want to see Alistair mop around my corpse. LOL
Yeah even if its harder to do, I'm going for the rivalry/romance path with Anders. For all we know, neither path will be a happy one for Anders. The boy is full of angst!!