Hi everyone! Stopping by to show support for my favourite hot-headed revolutionary mage

I've been looking through the thread but there is no way I'll read nearly 400 pages anytime soon. Anders is indeed a well written character if he inspires so many different emotions in people.
Anyway I've been playing through some Anders romantic dialogs to see what the other responses are and wondered about something. First time I played I always used the first romantic option that popped out on the left side of the dialog wheel because I didn't want to miss the romance. Now I noticed that in the second conversation in the first Act if you choose the top-diplomatic answer (instead of left-romantic) Anders actually flirts with you instead just reject my attempt to seduce him. I kind of missed that in my first playthrough and now I'm positively surprised that it is there. Still I wished it wasn't hidden like that. On the other hand in the conversation with a kiss if you choose 'normal' answers instead of romantic it skips the kiss and I'm not sure if the romance scene at home happens at all.
So was it only me that missed Anders actively flirting Hawke in first Act or was it just not as intuitive as it should be.