SolidBeast wrote...
maselphie wrote...
I feel pretty embarrassed by the fact ... that I was ... very against Anders being in the game to begin with. 
Damn, this thread moves too fast for me to catch up. I can't even browse anything else while I reply here, heh.
I was the exact same way. "That mage better not be Anders". "What?! It's Anders after all? Crap." I didn't like the overly-perky Anders from Awakening.
Oh, thank goodness I'm not the only convert! xD I'm a pretty opinionated (and vocal) person. When I saw rumors of Anders being in the game, I was like WUT NO. Because I knew that there would be a male human LI reveal, and I was racing through possibilities. And just telling me, oh, it's that crazy woobie you met in Awakenings was like D:
But I'm not too prideful to not apologize for jumping the gun. I was uninterested in him out of spite, and thought it was weird that people were gaga over him, because I was intentionally being closed-minded. Even though I also felt an attraction to him in Awakenings (albeit with my married Warden). It's really amazing how I turned around, which could not have been an easy win, considering how I wanted to not like him.
Good thing I'm also a very loyal person, so now I can defend this feeling to my grave.
When I started Anders' romance, I kept thinking "well, this is more...tender than I expected it to be." and it seemed to me like the devs went about this romance in a "Look at this fuzzy kitten! - As I CRUSH IT!" kind of way. "Also, tired of saving the world? Good, because you're not going to do it this time. In fact, you can't. You're helpless. And your entire family dies! In your face!"
LMAO, yeah.
I figured ... I knew they were too happy. When two characters say that they love each other in the middle of a story, something is about to go horribly wrong. I was preparing myself for whatever may come, however not successful in coming up with any ideas. Maybe he'd massacre people. Maybe he'd die to prove a point. What he did, and how cruel it was, and how I played a part in it, was completely unexpected and all that warm fuzzy feelings of seeing him in your house went out the window. I am challenged, as a character, about how deep my love for him really is. Which makes me, as a player, love him quite a lot.